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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Death of my husband
« on: May 16, 2015, 04:52:40 AM »
(SDaniels)

I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. I am sorry but this is a hard journey.  Everything is dark right now for you but in time you will see light.  Everyone griefs different. I am going on 4 1/2 years.  I still have bad days but not like the first couple of years. I talk to Lou all the time and get signs from him.  He will always be with me.  Your husband is with you too.

Take one second, minute , day at a time.  If you can't sleep make sure you rest. Drink plenty of water, snack if you can't eat.

I still journal to this day.  You can journal, see a grief group.  You need to see what is best for you.

Come here anytime to post we are all family.

Always,

Lisa

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: 15.5.-Riki´s angel date (Shelby).
« on: May 16, 2015, 04:46:15 AM »
((((((((( Shelby )))))))


I hope your heart was filled with beautiful memories or Riki. Riki is always with you.

We all are learning from life.  We do the best we can, it didn't come with a instructions.  Be proud of yourself each day you.

Always,

Lisa

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: 16.5.-Jan´s heavenly birthday (Janka).
« on: May 16, 2015, 04:40:26 AM »
Janka,

Thinking of you today on Jan's heavenly birthday , may your heart be filled with beautiful memories.  I hope Jan gives you a sign today.

Jan will always be with you.

Always,

Lisa


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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Maureen's Angel Date (((Arthur)))
« on: April 16, 2015, 02:10:25 AM »
((((((((( ARTHUR )))))))


Hoping beautiful memories filled your heart  :engel2:


Always

Lisa

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Lou's Birthday (Lisa)
« on: April 09, 2015, 02:50:06 AM »
Terry and Janka,

Thank you so much for the kind messages.

I know he is always with me.  I bought cupcakes and balloons as I always do on his Heavenly Birthday.


Always,

Lisa

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: DIMES FROM HEAVEN
« on: March 24, 2015, 04:35:52 PM »
I really can't ever think I will stop counting days, months , years since Lou passed.

Sunday March 22nd was 4 years and 4 months.  I was putting stuff in the back seat of my car.  Yes on the floor I found a DIME, I thanked Lou for my Dime from Heaven and my sign.

Just wanted to share.

Always,

Lisa

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: The Story of the TREE
« on: March 24, 2015, 04:31:18 PM »
I figured I would share we all had these kinds of people in our lives at one point.

I am sure in the near future but this is what I need to do going forward.


Always,

Lisa

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Poem XXIX.
« on: March 24, 2015, 04:28:44 PM »
Hugs Janka

Thank you for sharing .....

Always

Lisa

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Lost my husband and best friend
« on: March 24, 2015, 04:26:47 PM »
(((((( Dottie )))))))

I am so sorry for your loss :tearyeyed: You were given great advice.  We all grief differently. You need to do what is best for you.

Welcome to our family we are always here for you.


Always,

Lisa

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Spouse, Partner Loss / The Story of the TREE
« on: March 01, 2015, 04:15:23 PM »
Hi

I just wanted to share this my best friend / sister sent this to me even printed it on beautiful paper for me.  We aren't sisters by blood but we truly know we are sisters.

I had just recently had a friend now ex friend leave my life.  I am OK with it because this person I truly was there for and would forgive them when they did something wrong to me.  This person is a leaf/branch to me.  I wish no ILL towards this person but I would never take them back as my friend.  I had other friends like this person and it's OK they aren't meant to be in my life.  I am better off without people like this.

I am sure everyone can relate to this.

The Story of the TREE By; Tyler Perry
“Some people are meant to come into your life for a lifetime, some for only a season and you got to know which is which. And you’re always messing up when you mix those seasonal people up with lifetime expectations.

I put everybody that comes into my life in the category of a tree. Some people are like leaves on a tree. When the wind blows, they’re over there… wind blow that way they over here… they’re unstable. When the seasons change they wither and die, they’re gone. That’s alright. Most people are like that, they’re not there to do anything but take from the tree and give shade every now and then. That’s all they can do. But don’t get mad at people like that, that’s who they are. That’s all they were put on this earth to be. A leaf.

Some people are like a branch on that tree. You have to be careful with those branches too, ‘cause they’ll fool you. They’ll make you think they’re a good friend and they’re real strong but the minute you step out there on them, they’ll break and leave you high and dry.

But if you find two or three people in your life that’s like the roots at the bottom of that tree you are blessed. Those are the kind of people that aren’t going nowhere. They aren’t worried about being seen, nobody has to know that they know you, they don’t have to know what they’re doing for you but if those roots weren’t there, that tree couldn’t live.

A tree could have a hundred million branches but it only takes a few roots down at the bottom to make sure that tree gets everything it needs. When you get some roots, hold on to them but the rest of it… just let it go. Let folks go.”

This analogy struck a chord deep within me. There are so many relationships we will have during the course of our life. We all have had people that we have been in love with or had supposed best-friends who have already come and gone. (In fact, I had one particular friend years ago who I would have expected to do my eulogy and we haven’t spoken in years!)

There are people who come in and out of your life and it hurts to go through the process, but the truth of it is you have to let it go. There are more people you will meet; some who will only turn out to be leaves and branches, but always remember to cherish those who are your roots. These are the people who truly know you through and through; it could be a family member, a grade school friend, even a high school sweetheart, but if you can count on one hand the number of friends who are like “roots” then take comfort in the fact that you are truly blessed in life.


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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Wish I had this
« on: March 01, 2015, 03:52:32 AM »
Shelby


You can have this one day when you are ready.  Riki wants you to be happy again.

I love Ed Sherran and I love love this song ......


Always,

Lisa

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Wedding Anniversary!
« on: February 28, 2015, 03:33:44 AM »
(((( Rod ))))

I know for me dates just numb me.  Special dates we need to take the day for us.  Just honor your special dates how you like.  It's hard I know them not being here.

Also, they want us to be happy again. 

Always,

Lisa


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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Newly Widowed
« on: February 28, 2015, 03:23:50 AM »
(((((( Robin )))))))


I am so sorry for the loss of your husband Tom  :engel2: So true , take one sec, min, hour and day at a time.  Cry , yell , scream let your pain out. 

Welcome to our family here at Webhealing.  You have good advice from everyone but do what is best for you. We all grief differently.  If you can't sleep just lay down and rest. Grief takes everything out of you. 

Please know you can write and someone will always answer you here.


Always,

Lisa

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: WAITING IN THE LIGHT
« on: February 22, 2015, 05:31:45 AM »
((((( Shelby )))))


You are doing the best you can and that's an accomplishment but proud.


Always

Lisa

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Child Loss / Re: My Baby's Birthday (venting)
« on: February 22, 2015, 05:20:08 AM »
(((((( TERRY )))))))

As I know these dates are hard :tearyeyed: Holding you close hoping beautiful memories filled your heart of your Jeff.

He is always with you and your other children are too.  They know you have the harder part everyday but you find the strength to go on.

I love you and thinking of you sweetie.

Hugs Always,

Lisa

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