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Sibling Loss / Re: New to sharing grief
« on: December 20, 2006, 08:24:36 AM »
Hi griefstruck,

First of all I am so sorry for your loss.  Like Middle Sis I find comfort in talking to others about my grief.  It helps to talk to others who understand what we are going through.  Please don't feel guilty about issues that were beyond your control.  I have dealt with guilt issues too and it really tears a person apart.
My brother was murdered and I deal with the "if onlys",  if only I would have been there maybe I could have saved him,  if only I would have talked to him more maybe I would have known something was wrong...........and the list goes on and on.

Take care and let us know how you are doing.

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Sibling Loss / Re: alone here?
« on: December 20, 2006, 06:40:27 AM »
Middle Sis, you said it all when you said "I can't believe I survived it", I feel the same way.  But we really didn't have a choice in any of it.  I know that I was always under the assumption that I would have my brother and sister around until we were all "old and gray".  It's hard having lost my parents, brother and sister. 

Lisa,  I am so sorry that you have lost so much at such a young age.  I know that it must make your grief much harder to deal with.  I wasn't nearly as young as you are when my losses began.  Even though my friends were very kind and supportive, they just didn't have a clue to what I was really going through.  Our lives change so dramatically after one loss, much less multiple losses.

Take care

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Main / Re: Christmas Blues
« on: December 18, 2006, 01:59:43 PM »
I don't know about the rest of you, but for me it's really hard seeing everyone with their holiday spirit.  Don't get me wrong, I am happy for those who are in the holiday mode, but it just intensifies my feeling so lost without my parents, sister and brother.  It's not only  Christmas, but all happy occasions that have such a gapping hole in them.  It's times like this that make me realize just how much I have lost by not having much family left.  Sorry to sound so blue, I am just having a blah day.

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Sibling Loss / Re: alone here?
« on: December 18, 2006, 01:48:41 PM »
Hi Middle Sis and ljcs.

You are not alone, we must be sharing some of the same holiday blahs that hit so many of us who have lost loved ones.  I've not posted because I have felt like I could not be very helpful to anyone who is down.  But that's why we are all here to lean on each other and get a helping hand.

I hope that each of you are able to find peace and happiness during this holiday season.  Take care!!

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