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Child Loss / Re: It never goes away................
« on: May 15, 2008, 10:36:32 PM »
I'm sorry you had to go through that in Florida.  I'm sure your girls understand.  What I tell my two daughters is this is the way I am now and I'm sorry but they will have to accept it.  All of our lives have been forever changed and different since losing my precious son.  They have to deal with the loss of their brother everyday and so do I in our own ways.  We can be their to support each other but we all have to deal with it in our own individual way.  I always love it when people say "They are still with you"  I know they mean well but they aren't here with us, not in the physical way we want them.  Getting over it----NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: The Happy and the Sad
« on: May 15, 2008, 10:30:57 PM »
Hi Karen:
Our lives seem to be like a rollercoaster.  Filled with sad and happy events but always underlying is the dark saddness of our kids.  I know Chris was your nephew but you remind me alot of my sister, she was so very close to my Jason and she misses him terribly.  So many things our kids should be doing and when someone gets married, graduates from college, has a baby it saddens us because our kids were suppose to do that too.  They will never have the opportunity to live their lives and it's so unfair!!!
My thoughts and prayers are with you!!
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: My Baby Brother
« on: May 15, 2008, 10:25:15 PM »
Hi Rebecca:
After having lost our precious children it is the worst of the worst things don't seem so important anymore.  I feel like if I can live with loss of my Jason I can live through anything that happens.  I'm sorry that you and your sister haven't worked things out strange how things happen like that.  Hope you're feeling ok I know you have alot on your plate with the diabetes and your job.  Take care of yourself!!!!
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: Amazing connection!!
« on: May 15, 2008, 10:20:14 PM »
I find my self sighing and shaking my head no alot.  I guess it's just a natural thing to do, the disbelief in it all.  It's just so unfair!!!
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / I am blessed
« on: May 15, 2008, 10:17:51 PM »
Hi everyone:
Just wanted to share a blessing with you.  I am a new grandma, baby boy born today Mason Bradley weighing in at 8 lbs.  This is my second grandbaby and oh what a wonderful thing.  Such a bittersweet event, saddens me to know they will never know their uncle Jason, he would have loved these little guys.
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: Not Able to Cry...
« on: May 14, 2008, 06:40:46 AM »
Rebecca:
You are so blessed to still have Jason's friends around you.  I know it's bittersweet though, all the things they are doing that Jason would have been doing.  Things will get better for you, you're in my prayers!!
One day, one moment, one breathe at  a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: MOTHERS DAY WISHES
« on: May 14, 2008, 06:38:49 AM »
Hi Greg:
Thank you for your kind words.  I do feel blessed to have had my son for 24 short years.  He made me the person I am today and I thank God I was able to experience such a love I never knew existed!!
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: 30 years!!!!
« on: May 14, 2008, 06:37:12 AM »
Hi Debh:
Thinking of you and your boys today.  I would also like to thank you it's been 31/2 years for me now and when I first came to this life saving board you were always there for me, it means so much to me, thank you!!
Another mothers day for us all I just can't wait until we are reunited with our boys, what a day that will be!!
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: My Book, your book
« on: May 14, 2008, 06:33:38 AM »
What a wonderful way to honor your child.  Thank you for sharing your story with us it was written in such a wonderful way.  We will be reunited with our children some day until then one day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: To All The Mothers
« on: May 14, 2008, 06:26:27 AM »
Thank you Don for all your kind words and thoughts.  We will forever miss our children, like you, and our lives are never going to be the same. 
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: Thank U to all - No tears
« on: May 14, 2008, 06:24:39 AM »
Hi Rebecca:
You take care of yourself!!!!  Jason would want you to.  It seems this grief cycle really takes a toll on our health along with the pschological affect and the constant heartache.  Take care my friend!!  We will be with our Jason's someday again, oh what a reunion that will be, until then one day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: Amazing connection!!
« on: May 14, 2008, 06:21:43 AM »
Hi Zengirl:
I, like you, chose to see a medium.  My sister went with me for moral support and not only did she validate alot of things for me but she also had some things to say to my sister.  She was able to answer some of the questions I had about my sons death and she also knew things she couldn't possibly know about my family.  I don't know if you ever have closure when losing a loved one but it certainly did comfort me. 
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your mom and child.  We will be reunited with them someday until then one day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
Take care, hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: just a nice thought
« on: April 26, 2008, 09:45:51 PM »
Hey Greg:
Maybe you're right!!!!!!  What a wonderful thought!!
one day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: Hi from Jon's mom Dee
« on: April 26, 2008, 09:43:44 PM »
Hi Dee:
Good to hear from you.  My mom is a two year survivor of breast cancer hers had gone into 11 of her lymph nodes.  She says she will never complain about her hair again LOL.  I think you are right about that not being the worst thing that's ever happened to you.  Glad you made it through chemo, that is so tough.  You are a survivor!!!!!!!!!!!
one day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: Visited Alek's favorite restaurant
« on: April 26, 2008, 06:44:43 AM »
Always such a bittersweet thing.  We embrace the place because it was their favorite but then we know they will never be there again.  It's so hard Marianne.  Just like our wonderful memories of them we love having them but it hurts so much sometimes to think of them!!  We will be with our kids again someday, I can't wait for that reunion!!
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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