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Child Loss / Re: Can someone please help
« on: December 27, 2006, 06:15:44 PM »
Ok I changed my little brackets hopefully this work, I'm just so stupid when it comes to this computer stuff and forget cut and paste!
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Can someone please help
« on: December 27, 2006, 04:35:07 PM »
Ok I have the link in my signature box now what do I do?  Can someone help me get my Jason's picture back on  here?
Thanks for the help
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: When you talk about your child, the good memories...
« on: December 27, 2006, 03:52:49 PM »
Hi Cheri:
You know when I lost my Jason on Dec 15, 2004 I had so much support.  Especially from my work family.  They continue to support me today, some.
Some do but the other day one of the girls finally told me how depressed I made her when I talked about my Jason, imagine that, she gets depressed hearing about it,  I just wanted to scream at her and say oh I'm sorry for making you depressed talking about my son who is gone whom I will never see, hold, smell again, I'm so sorry but your daughter is here and oh how I really get tired of hearing about how wonderful she is day in and day out.  I'm sorry I guess I just needed to vent. 
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: candi's christmas tree
« on: December 27, 2006, 03:45:51 PM »
Hi Martha:
I am thinking of you and your family.
The Christmas tree is a beautiful idea.  My sister in law made a tree for my Jason we take it the cemetary every year.  When I went to put it at his grave I was pleasantly surprised someone else had been there and left a beautiful wreath.  It somehow helps to know our precious children have not been forgotten.  I know they will always be in our hearts!!!
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: Anticipation ~VS~ the actual event
« on: December 27, 2006, 03:38:00 PM »
This was my third Christmas without my Jason.  What I found was that I didn't plan or anticipate anything.  It krept up on me and I found myself very unprepared I just couldn't do it this year.  The first Christmas, my Jason was killed on Dec 15, 2004, we were all in shock, the second, I don't remember and this year I just couldn't wait for it to be over.  We have a new wonderful grandson, he is now 3 mos old.  He looks so much like his uncle Jason,  how proud Jason would have been to see his little sister a mom.  Maybe next year will be softer and gentler on us all. 
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: 3rd Christmas cant leave the house!
« on: December 27, 2006, 03:30:28 PM »
Hi Chris:
I'm so sorry for your loss of your precious daughter, Sara.
Unfortunatly we all have regrets and oh if we had only known that was the last time we would see our precious children what we would have done things differently to stop them from leaving that tragic night.
My son, Jason was taken from us on Dec 15, 2004.  He was fighting with his girlfriend and said he was going to the store, I knew better, if I had just some how stopped him from leaving that night he might still be with me.
There are just some things we have no control over and we have so many unanswered questions and why why why? Someday we will be reunited with our precious children and what a wonderful reunion that will be.
There are many wonderful and encouraging people here for you to talk to I hope you will share more with us when you are able.
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: Last time (maybe trigger)
« on: December 27, 2006, 12:28:08 PM »
Hi Sue:
The last time I saw my Jason he was angry, him and his girlfriend fighting he left to go out and find her.  Like Katie, our boys were killed the same tragic way, I did not get to see my boy in the end, closed because of the circumstances.
I am so sorry you are having such a difficult time, I guess that's what our lives are now.  It's just so unfair for us and our beautiful children, what should have been and what will never be now.
Sorry I'm not very encouraging.  Hope you feel Sara close to you today!!
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: I HOPE I'M DOING THIS RIGHT
« on: December 27, 2006, 12:24:59 PM »
Hi Martha:
I have not been on the board for awhile so this is all sooo new to me.  Yea, I got registered again but my Jason's picture is gone again and I'm just not computer savy enough to try and post his picture again.
Everything is changed I hope I'm doing this right too. 
I think the second year is definatly worse than the first.  This is our third Christmas without Jason we lost him in 2004 right before Christmas on the 14th of December. 
Missing our children and looking forward to being reunited with them someday.  Keeping you in my prayers!!
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: ANOTHER FAMILY NEEDS PRAYER
« on: December 26, 2006, 03:39:58 PM »
Hi Martha:
I will remember this family along with everyone here in my daily prayers!!  Sometimes, especially as we get older it seems there are so many sad times.  I know we are blessed but sometimes it's just so hard to continue on.
Hope you are doing ok!
Take care
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: Everyone
« on: December 26, 2006, 03:36:43 PM »
Hi Cherri:
I too pray that God will give us the will to continue on one more day, one more moment, taking each breathe at a time!!
Until we are reunited with our precious children, they will forever remain in our hearts!!
Take care
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Re: It's over
« on: December 26, 2006, 03:34:40 PM »
Hi Dottie:
It's been quite a while for me being on here but I have missed all of you!
Yes, the holidays are over, thank God!  You know when I first came here everyone said the second year was harder and after going into my second year without my Jason I have to agree.  I pray for all of us daily and hope God will continue to give us strength and a reason to go on one more day, one more moment, and take one more breathe!
Take care!!
Donna (Jason's mom)

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Child Loss / Two year anniversary date
« on: December 14, 2006, 07:31:31 PM »
It's been awhile since I've visited the site.  Alot of things have happened in my life but one thing remains forever the same.  The sad truth that my precious son, Jason, is still not with us during this holiday season.  His precious life was taken 2 years ago today at 11:59pm in a tragic car accident.  When I first came to this site everyone was so wonderful and caring and really supported me so much there were nights when I really didn't think I was going to make it and you all were there to encourage me and support me.  I will be forever grateful to you all.  Someone told me once here the second year is worst than the first.  I found that so hard to  believe  but in fact must admit that I'm finding it to be true.  These past few weeks have been almost unbearable with my heart feeling like it could sometimes burst and will never be repaired.  I miss my boy so much and each day I miss him even more than the day before.
My wish for all of you this season is that we can all find a place where we can go in our hearts to be with our precious children and for a moment out of our day find a comfort and peace to take us through another day without our precious children.
I think of you all often and am of course always remembering you all everyday in my prayers.
One day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
Donna (Jason's mom)

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