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Spouse, Partner Loss / I need Web Healing
« on: October 06, 2012, 11:50:53 AM »
I'm back. For many years I was a contributor to webhealing. Then something happened that I will not bring up. Dor those who don't know me I lost my 30 yr old son to suicide. I found him. We were so close. He was my best friend and we were almost constantly together. As his girl friend said "you 2 were connected at the hip". I am still trying to get over that at least a little for 8 years now.
Then on December 2, 2011, I lost my wife of 46 years Bonnie. I am at a total lost now. I miss them so much. This house use to have 6 people in it years ago, now it is just me. My wife and I never got to enjoy these so called "Golden Years". Now each day is filled with tears.
Then on December 2, 2011, I lost my wife of 46 years Bonnie. I am at a total lost now. I miss them so much. This house use to have 6 people in it years ago, now it is just me. My wife and I never got to enjoy these so called "Golden Years". Now each day is filled with tears.
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Suicide Loss / Re: Wishes for peace, for all
« on: January 07, 2012, 11:44:09 AM »
TERRY,
I have been trying to answer you on here but have not been able. Please contact me at my e-mail. [email protected].
Thank you, so anxiously awaiting a talk with you.
Don
I have been trying to answer you on here but have not been able. Please contact me at my e-mail. [email protected].
Thank you, so anxiously awaiting a talk with you.
Don
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Spouse, Partner Loss / Lost My Love on Dec. 2, 2011
« on: December 22, 2011, 01:40:37 PM »
Trying to pout on calendar
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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Terry's father
« on: December 20, 2011, 12:04:32 PM »
Terry, please know I am thinking of you as you did me. I am so sorry to hear your Dad has passed away. Life can be so sad at times.
Please know I am here for you as you were for me.
Love
Don
Please know I am here for you as you were for me.
Love
Don
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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: school events
« on: December 16, 2011, 01:54:16 PM »
Jason, please know I am thinking of you and your pain. My Son use to ask me how he could ever go on if something happened to me. I told him to hold on to all the memories we were making. That was so easy, but now when I think of a memory or see something that reminds me of my Wife or Son I have another break down.
I hope you make it thru this.................
Don
I hope you make it thru this.................
Don
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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: How Much Can a Man Take?
« on: December 16, 2011, 01:48:24 PM »
I want to thank you all so much for writing and caring. I would love to tell you about my Son and my Bonnie. However I am just not up to it yet. I will be back......................
Don
Don
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Spouse, Partner Loss / How Much Can a Man Take?
« on: December 14, 2011, 09:43:44 AM »
It has been awhile since I've been on the board, I am back now as I need the support of all the fine members.
I lost my only Son on June 13, 2004. I will never get over that as we were so very close. He took his own life with a hand gun I gave him at his request. He was 30. I found him and he had shot himself in the head.
Now on December 2, I lost my strength, my partner of 45 years. My sweet wife Bonnie died of severe COPD. We brought her home rather than have her die in a cold hospital. My daughters and I were with here 24 hours a day and then watched her slowly die.
I am so lonely now. A 5 bedroom house with nothing but wonderful memories that hurt so very much.
Sorry for being so dismal, but I can't help it.
Don
I lost my only Son on June 13, 2004. I will never get over that as we were so very close. He took his own life with a hand gun I gave him at his request. He was 30. I found him and he had shot himself in the head.
Now on December 2, I lost my strength, my partner of 45 years. My sweet wife Bonnie died of severe COPD. We brought her home rather than have her die in a cold hospital. My daughters and I were with here 24 hours a day and then watched her slowly die.
I am so lonely now. A 5 bedroom house with nothing but wonderful memories that hurt so very much.
Sorry for being so dismal, but I can't help it.
Don
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Child Loss / Excuse Me, But
« on: July 06, 2011, 09:35:01 AM »
Before leaving the board I took quite a bit of noise about my statement.
Now let me ask you this Are you all glad that Casey Anthony is now a free woman? Don't think her Mother and Father would of been too up set if she had rightly found guilty.
Just wondering how my so called friends feel about that?
Dopn't get upset Tom. I'm leaving
Don
Now let me ask you this Are you all glad that Casey Anthony is now a free woman? Don't think her Mother and Father would of been too up set if she had rightly found guilty.
Just wondering how my so called friends feel about that?
Dopn't get upset Tom. I'm leaving
Don
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Child Loss / How is it possible?????
« on: June 20, 2011, 08:18:32 AM »
I am not here to stir more controversy. Now I see even Tom is against me. You all are saying that criminals, rapists, child abusers, etc. all deserve the same consideration as your child?
Well, I'll tell you my Son struggled with terrets syndrome, learning disability
bi-polar personality. Yet he held a job with the Public Works since the day he graduated, 11 years. Bought his own house and paid taxes just like you and me. He did not suck off the system like so many today.
Now would someone convince me that the murderer,etc should be allowed to live out his life while my son, your son, your daughter, is taken by our "God"? I have to wonder what method he uses to choose.
I have to think that those of you who feel that way should make an appointment to see Tom as he can tell you what to say and what not to say
After 7 enjoyable years I will always be thinking of you all.
Don
Well, I'll tell you my Son struggled with terrets syndrome, learning disability
bi-polar personality. Yet he held a job with the Public Works since the day he graduated, 11 years. Bought his own house and paid taxes just like you and me. He did not suck off the system like so many today.
Now would someone convince me that the murderer,etc should be allowed to live out his life while my son, your son, your daughter, is taken by our "God"? I have to wonder what method he uses to choose.
I have to think that those of you who feel that way should make an appointment to see Tom as he can tell you what to say and what not to say
After 7 enjoyable years I will always be thinking of you all.
Don
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Child Loss / So Sorry For Offending Some
« on: June 17, 2011, 09:57:15 AM »
I have been contacted by Terry in reference to the statement I made to Rebecca questioning why the bad live forever and the good kids die so young.
I NEVER EVER was refering to kids with addictions. How could I? my Mom was an alcoholic all her life. I too am a recovering alcoholic for the past 24 years. My Grand So is presently in State mandated re-hab for drug addiction and of course I want him to live a long life. Addiction, Alcoholism Cancer are all diseases that people don't ask to have, I know that quite well.
My Donny was with some scum friends the night before he killed himself. He was depressed and these lovely human beings talked him into doing a couple lines of coke. That morning he shot himself in the head..... Whether you like it or not I would love to be able to avenge his death, but he did it no one forced him.
I am sure all of you watch the news at night. Do you not see the rapists, murderers, parents that kill their own children, the sick o's who abduct women rape and then kill them? These are the people I was refering to.
When I was in Vietnam I saw so many good kids killed why the ones with records were not allowed in the service. Sorry I guess I must of gotten hard over the years.
I am sorry for any I offended. I have decided that it is time for me to leave the board. I am an extremely honest person, honest to a fault my friends tell me. Well that is ME. I will express my feelings but never with intent to hurt anyone else. I* have read things on here that bother me also but still appreciate the persons right to speak their peace.
I will miss the board as for the past 7 years it has helped to keep me going. I also have gained a lot of friends who are no longer on the board but we keep in contact by e-mail.
I wish you all the best on this hard, hards journey
The time has come to say Good-bye, thank you for all your help and now I will not be able to offend anyone.
Don
I NEVER EVER was refering to kids with addictions. How could I? my Mom was an alcoholic all her life. I too am a recovering alcoholic for the past 24 years. My Grand So is presently in State mandated re-hab for drug addiction and of course I want him to live a long life. Addiction, Alcoholism Cancer are all diseases that people don't ask to have, I know that quite well.
My Donny was with some scum friends the night before he killed himself. He was depressed and these lovely human beings talked him into doing a couple lines of coke. That morning he shot himself in the head..... Whether you like it or not I would love to be able to avenge his death, but he did it no one forced him.
I am sure all of you watch the news at night. Do you not see the rapists, murderers, parents that kill their own children, the sick o's who abduct women rape and then kill them? These are the people I was refering to.
When I was in Vietnam I saw so many good kids killed why the ones with records were not allowed in the service. Sorry I guess I must of gotten hard over the years.
I am sorry for any I offended. I have decided that it is time for me to leave the board. I am an extremely honest person, honest to a fault my friends tell me. Well that is ME. I will express my feelings but never with intent to hurt anyone else. I* have read things on here that bother me also but still appreciate the persons right to speak their peace.
I will miss the board as for the past 7 years it has helped to keep me going. I also have gained a lot of friends who are no longer on the board but we keep in contact by e-mail.
I wish you all the best on this hard, hards journey
The time has come to say Good-bye, thank you for all your help and now I will not be able to offend anyone.
Don
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Child Loss / A Sincere Thank You from Donny and Don
« on: June 14, 2011, 10:14:04 AM »
I want to thank all of you who recognized Donny's Angel Day. As you all too well know it was rough and full of tears. With friends like I have on this site it sure made it a little easier.
Rebecca: I know you are close behind me on this. May I ask how many times, in your line of work, do you wonder why they took your boy and left some of your clients behind? I know I sure do.
Again, thanks to all of you
Don
Rebecca: I know you are close behind me on this. May I ask how many times, in your line of work, do you wonder why they took your boy and left some of your clients behind? I know I sure do.
Again, thanks to all of you
Don
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Child Loss / Re: Dan's Angel Date ((((( Annie )))))
« on: June 07, 2011, 09:33:09 AM »
Dear Annie
These Angel Dates are so hard to bear. Please know I am thinking of you because I know the pain also.
I have been trying to think of a different label for this terrible day, but have a problem keeping the profanity out.
Please try your best to have a peaceful day on Dan's Day. On the 13th it will be 7 long, lonely years that Donny left me.
Take care my friend,
Don
These Angel Dates are so hard to bear. Please know I am thinking of you because I know the pain also.
I have been trying to think of a different label for this terrible day, but have a problem keeping the profanity out.
Please try your best to have a peaceful day on Dan's Day. On the 13th it will be 7 long, lonely years that Donny left me.
Take care my friend,
Don
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Child Loss / Re: Landon's Angel Date ((((( Shelly )))))
« on: June 05, 2011, 09:30:12 AM »
Dear Shelly, please know I am thinking of you and Landon on this very sad day. How do we go on? How can a parent live this long with a broken heart? I don't know but somehow we do day after day.
Perhaps it is because of sights like this and the wonderful people in it.
Please take care
Don
Perhaps it is because of sights like this and the wonderful people in it.
Please take care
Don
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Suicide Loss / Re: Not sure where to start
« on: May 27, 2011, 09:13:41 AM »
Welcome Jewels to the club that no one ever wants to join. Yes, feeling lost, unable to move and frequent break downs are all normal now.
We must realize our lives have changed forever. I lost my Son, My Buddy, My Best Friend 7 years ago on June 13, 2004. It is a little easier but not very much. I wish I could tell you that it will be so much easier, but I can't. I still break down almost every day when Dony doesn't come by like he did every day after work.
The good news is that you came to the right place. The people on here are fantastic and so caring.
Please keep coming back as it seemed I was the only one that lost someone to suicide.
Don
We must realize our lives have changed forever. I lost my Son, My Buddy, My Best Friend 7 years ago on June 13, 2004. It is a little easier but not very much. I wish I could tell you that it will be so much easier, but I can't. I still break down almost every day when Dony doesn't come by like he did every day after work.
The good news is that you came to the right place. The people on here are fantastic and so caring.
Please keep coming back as it seemed I was the only one that lost someone to suicide.
Don
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Child Loss / Re: 11 years today...
« on: May 22, 2011, 09:34:47 AM »
Dear Pat, so sorry I am a day late but please know I am thinking of you and your boy. These days make you feel so helpless once again.
I share you and your husbands pain
Don
I share you and your husbands pain
Don