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Main / Re: Grieving children
« on: June 26, 2008, 02:22:05 PM »
Thank you all for your kind words, I am going to see a therepist on July 7. I am going alone first. I think I have to take baby steps with my kids, there more fragile than I thought. I am glad that I have you to talk with, Thank You all.

Main / Grieving children
« on: June 25, 2008, 04:38:18 PM »
after I realized I wasnt as alone as I thought I was , I tried to show my son a couple of topics to show him he wasnt alone, I asked him only once, and he looked at me and said your trying to make me mad again arent you?anytime I want to talk about his father to help him in anyway, or a therepist, he tenses up so badly and turns into someone I dont even know. My daughters up and run out of the room as if to say "here she goes again" I just wish I could help them, I just wish I could help myself. I never thought I would have to deal with this. I lost my father 10 years ago suddenly and that nearly killed me, my mother is 85 and in so much pain, so I know whats coming, its all to much, but my husband dying in his sleep, that was his worst nightmare, and it came true,and its so unsettling to me. The nights are very hard, I thought things would get easier, some days they do, some days they all come crashing in.It does feel good to get this off my chest, I do wish everyone peace.

Main / Re: Wedding Bands
« on: June 25, 2008, 04:25:15 PM »
I am so sorry for your loss. I have to say though I smiled when you said you worked with your hands and didnt wear your wedding band, my husband always said that to me, when I asked "where is it" but he was right, he let everyone know how much he loved me and didnt need to wear it, now I wear it also around my neck, because it wont fit on any of my fingers, I will probably always be wearing it. Sometimes I am just at a loss for words, its all to new to me but I am glad that I found this group to talk with. Your in my prayers.

Main / New to group
« on: June 24, 2008, 04:03:23 PM »
My name is Georgia and I lost My husband of 20 years on April 13 of this year. He passed away in his sleep on our first night in our new place, he was only 44. I have 3 children. 2 girls 13 & 19 and one son 15. My son is taking it the hardest out of all my kids, he pretty much has meltdowns everyother night, if anyone has any advice its welcomed.

Main / Re: overwhelmed
« on: June 24, 2008, 03:55:27 PM »
I also lost my husband 2 months ago, and my son has been having melt downs atleast once a week, my youngest daughter has denied the whole thing has happened, and my oldest daughter has just up and moved out with her friends. When the meltdowns start, there is no stopping them and the therepist says its good to get eveything out, but I am so tired, I feel wiped out after its all over, and then my heart breaks for my kids, my son who wishes he was dead with my husband because he missed him so badly. I am just glad I found this site, because now atleast I dont feel so alone. I'm feel for you and your kids and pray that your pain eases alittle. Georgia.

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