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Main / Re: April Sucks
« on: April 22, 2010, 06:51:29 PM »
Hi John,
I lost my husband 2 years ago April 13, so I do agree April does suck. But, you really do need to give it some time. The pain doesnt go all the way away, but it does ease up. And when you really think about it, your wife would really want you to be happy, to live a happy life, not to want to die. But I do understand, I have been there, just give yourself time, cry, but then realize you needto take care of yourself and live your life to the fullest and hard as that sounds right now. I wish you all the best.

Georgia.

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Main / Re: Thinking of you Georgia
« on: April 22, 2010, 06:45:39 PM »
Hi Guys,
Thank you for thinking of me, I am always thinking of you. actually, a friend at work lost her mom, suddenly. Her father found her. It was very devastating to the whole family and community and I have been trying to help her because she is lost. What she did tell me that really touched me was that on April 13 ( Johnnys Angel date) My daughter Anna (her student) wrote her such a beautiful card and she was so touched by it. now my daughter and her daughter who is in my daughters class are usually found sitting quietly in the school hall during a study hall and talking and helping eachother out. I also printed out a list of the rec. books for her and told her about starting a journal and just trying to be there for her. So thats where I've been, and I have really missed all of you guys, but I did tell her about this site, and she was very interested but needs time. I told her how you all saved me! and I Thank you in my Prayers all the time. on a lighter note, my son is on Prom court this Sat night maybe King? and My oldest daughter is having a baby boy Sept 3!! call me Grandma? hope you are all doing well and will be back soon as I can. Thank ou so much for thinking of me. Miss you all!

Georgia.

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Main / Re: new member struggling
« on: March 27, 2010, 07:00:57 PM »
Hi Reinn,
Welcome, and so sorry for your pain. I agree with Tom. Although its so painful to tell your story, I think we have to. its been 2 years this April since my husband passed and the other day I saw the school physoc, and broke down, she told me she thinks I am reliving the stress all over again, so I am going to the doctor monday and am going to try to get some help, because I think maybe shes right. its hard, I hope we can help eachother. hang in there.

Georgia.

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Main / Re: Family dying
« on: March 23, 2010, 05:18:26 PM »
HI sue,
I am so so sorry, I echo what Lauren says, I just dont understand, I asked myself today if i was being punished for something but I know thats just not how it works, but I cant understand no matter how hard I try, my heart goes out to you and everyone here, God Bless You.

Georgia.

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Main / Re: NEW PIC. OF MY(DAD)&MAILBOX HE MADE(PLEASE LOOK)
« on: March 19, 2010, 09:49:51 AM »
Hi Martha,
I'm so sorry for your pain. you shouldnt hold your tears in, but maybe you should go and see someone to talk with and help you to ease your pain. a month is not long at all and you sound like you need some help. Also I'm sure you love having your grandaughter around you but maybe it would benefit you to have some alone time to get your feelings together? just a thought. I do hope you can find some peace with this , its a hard journey and a long one. My prayers are with you.

Georgia.

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Main / Re: Today is the 3rd anniversary of my husband's death
« on: March 19, 2010, 09:45:12 AM »
Dear Mousewife,
I'm sure your husband is so proud of you and I think you are there, you sound like you are doing fine.

Georgia.

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Main / Re: Losing My Father
« on: February 28, 2010, 07:35:00 PM »
Daraz,   I am so sorry for your loss. This is a wonderful site and I am glad you are here to talk with us. Please come back and talk anytime, it helps so much. My prayers are with you.........Georgia.

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Main / Re: "how do I post a picture"?
« on: February 28, 2010, 07:32:10 PM »
Hi Greg, if you dont get any replies maybe you can e-mail Tom and he can help you, there used to be someone on the site that was great at this but shes not on anymore, so sorry.      georgia.

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Main / Re: Another death in family
« on: February 28, 2010, 07:30:25 PM »
hi Carlina,  That has got to be so hard to deal with, I am so sorry. All those emotions flooding back and having to help your sister through. Deep breaths and plenty of rest for both of you in order for you to help your sister you need to keep taking care of yourself first. sending (((((hugs))))) and prayers to you and your sister......Georgia.

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Hi John,
your name John was my husands name and 1963 was the year he was born so I was thrown back a minute. I'm so sorry for your losses. I lost my husband and my mom within 6 months of eachother, so I understand just how you feel, its such a hard thing to go through. This is a wonderful site and we are all in this together and here to help, please always feel free to come back and talk/vent or cry whatever makes you feel better. My prayers are with you.

georgia.

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Main / Re: One year since losing Dad
« on: February 16, 2010, 03:23:35 PM »
Dear K80,
first of all I am so sorry for your loss. Second, why do you feel there is a time line on your grief? is anyone pressuring you to go through your dads belongings? do these things when you feel comfortable. Maybe one day go over to the apartment and maybe just look around and think about what you can do, you dont have to dive right in on the one year anniversary, there really are no rules to this. Take your time, take care of yourself, and we're here for you.

georgia.

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Main / Re: new to forum
« on: February 11, 2010, 06:31:33 PM »
Welcome Bev,
I am so sorry for your loss, I so sorry that you haveto go through this pain, its a horrible journey thay we are all going through and we are all here for you, my prayers are with you.

georgia.

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Main / Re: Wierd, Strange but True
« on: February 11, 2010, 06:28:44 PM »
((((((Randall)))))))
WOW thats all I can say

georgia.

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Main / Re: new person-hurting alot
« on: February 11, 2010, 06:26:47 PM »
HI Nokka
I"m so sorry for the loss of your wife, I lost my husband 2 years ago after 20 years of marriage I dont think it matters how long your together, its such a terrible loss. I'm glad you posted and hope you know you are not alone on this journey.

Georgia.

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Main / Re: New Person who just hasnt been the same.
« on: February 03, 2010, 07:05:09 PM »
Dear Kcnry,
I am so sorry for your loss. you really need to talk with someone that can help you understand what really happened. People tend to take the blame on themselves, when that isnt the case and you said hs mother is blaming you? There is no need for you to feel that way, I am so sorry. He sounds like he loved you so much, you just need to remember that and keep that in your heart, but you should take all this with you when you deploy, you definitly should go and talk it out and get proper help so that you ca keep yourself safe and take care of you. I hope you can find some kind of peace through all this pain, and I wish you the best of luck in your deployment.

georgia.

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