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Messages - MARTHA(CANDI'S AUNT)

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Child Loss / CANDI'S ANGEL DATE
« on: May 13, 2015, 02:19:28 PM »
it's hard to believe CANDI'S  been gone 10 yrs. today.  there's not a day that goes by that I don't miss her... she would be 33 yrs. old now..
 but she was killed when she was 23 yrs. old..  i'd LOVE  to see,hug,talk to her & tell her " AUNT MARTHA LOVE'S YOU WITH ALL MY HEART."
her son JOSH was 7 when she was killed . now he's 17.... he's a wonderful young man. they've both missed out on each other's live's..

MARTHA

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Child Loss / Re: Candi's Angel Date (Martha)
« on: May 13, 2015, 02:10:24 PM »
TERRY,
  THANK YOU SO MUCH....

 martha

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Child Loss / Re: how is everyone?
« on: April 05, 2015, 07:55:27 PM »
  CANDI will be gone 10 yrs. MAY 13TH..... SO IT'S been feeling like i'm having panic attacks... at time's it seems like it's been forever & then again it feels like yesterday...  JOSH was 7 when his mom was killed & now he's 17.. I think about all the thing's CANDI'S was robbed of & JOSH  was robbed of his mom.. my mind doesn't slow down.. 

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Child Loss / Re: I am grieving mother and need help
« on: March 18, 2015, 09:19:44 AM »
SANDRA,
       i'm sorry for the loss of your son...   i'll keep you in my thought's & prayers...  i'm glad you found this website.... everyone here is going through the same thing &  understand your feelings.....


MARTHA

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Child Loss / Re: Will be 13 years =(
« on: January 19, 2015, 07:06:09 PM »
HELLO SUE,

    it hard to believe that it's been 13 yrs... for you...  in MAY CANDI will be gone 10 yrs. I still wonder what she'd look like. what she'd be doing. her son(JOSH) is 17 yrs. old now...
IT'S  good to see you on here... I don't like the reason we're here though.... you're in my thought's & prayers.

MARTHA

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Child Loss / Re: Acceptance
« on: January 19, 2015, 06:57:49 PM »
I'M sorry you're in so much pain...  I agree with TERRY 21 MO. isn't a long time on this journey... to me the 2nd year was harder than the first...

if it wasn't for this board & some counceling I don't know what i'd have done... I still take antidepressents..  & CANDI will be gone 10 yrs. in MAY...  I still miss her & want her to come back... know that i'll keep you in my thought's & prayers...

sending you hug's,
  MARTHA



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Child Loss / Re: Will be 13 years =(
« on: December 31, 2014, 10:53:22 PM »
SUE,
   
     IT'S  been a long time since I've seen you on here. but I remember you & SARA.  I can't believe it'll be 13 yrs.... CANDI has been gone 9 1/2
 yrs. now... you're right it still hurts like it did but different...

KNOW I'LL be keeping you in my thought's & prayers.



MARTHA

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Child Loss / Re: Thinking of you this holiday season
« on: December 19, 2014, 03:43:41 PM »
hope everyone has a nice a safe holiday...  we're going to our daughter's CHRISTMAS EVE & have a snack dinner & play chinese CHRISTMAS...
then on CHRISTMAS DAY  we go to my mom's sister's(AUNT MARILYN.)  we have a traditional CHRISTMAS DINNER.


on CHRISTMAS EVE night our kids,their spouses & all 4 grandkids come stay the night & we open presents CHRISTMAS morning.

keeping everyone in my thought's & prayers.

MARTHA

 

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Child Loss / Re: new member...help needed
« on: December 10, 2014, 06:53:17 PM »
ZOESMAMMA,

   I'M glad you found this site. although I wish you didn't have to be here. i'm so  sorry for your loss.. I found  this site 2 mo. after my niece(CANDI-23) was killed 9 1/2 yrs. ago...
 i'll keep you in my thought's & prayers.... when I came here someone told me to:
 take it  " ONE MOMENT, ONE BREATH & ONE DAY at A TIME..."

SENDING YOU HUGS,
    MARTHA

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Child Loss / Re: Where is everyone from?
« on: August 30, 2014, 09:28:48 PM »
I live in Kemp, Oklahoma..right on the border of OK. & Tx..


  Martha

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Child Loss / CANDI'S BIRTHDAY
« on: August 30, 2014, 09:20:11 PM »
Happy 33rd Heavenly Birthday CANDI..... Aunt Martha Love's you with all my heart.

I LOVE AND MISS YOU EVERYDAY........

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Child Loss / Re: Candi's Angel Date (((((Martha)))))
« on: May 31, 2014, 12:21:47 PM »
Thnank you.

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Child Loss / Re: So quiet. How is everyone doing?
« on: May 08, 2014, 12:27:51 PM »
HI TERRY,
         thank's for everything you do.. you're so sweet...
 JOSH has been driving a racecar since he was 14.. but driving a car is different.. he says because cars are coming toward him on the road but on the racetrack they're all going the same way... he's so funny...

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Child Loss / Re: So quiet. How is everyone doing?
« on: April 25, 2014, 12:52:35 PM »
getting ready for my grand-daughter(KARLIE-6) KINDERGARTEN graduation MAY 13TH.... on that day CANDI will be gone 9 yrs..... it's kinda bittersweet that her graduation is on that day.. something exciting & happy is happening on the day that something deavastating happened..; 
it doesn't seem like it's been 9 yrs.... i miss CANDI so much...
CANDI'S niece (ZOIE CANDICE) will be 8 MO. tomorrow.  i wish she was here to see her...
CANDI'S  son(JOSH)  is 16 now.. he got his driver's license last FRIDAY...  he was only 7 when his mommy died...

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Child Loss / Re: Thinking of you, Martha on Dad's Angel Date
« on: February 21, 2014, 11:17:56 PM »
THANK  you TERRY..
 
 it's been 4 yrs. & i miss him terribly... there's so many thing's going on in our family & he's the only one that could talk to my brother & get through to him.. his daughter is getting married in JULY  & he won't even go to the wedding.. it's breaking my heart. his daughter ( DEANNA-21)  is my only living niece now that CANDI'S  gone & he being such a pain in the rear... for no reason.. the reason is he don't want to admit she's grown up..
she goes to college., works,live's on her own. pays her own car payment & college.. i want to crawl under a rock..

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