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Child Loss / Poem
« on: August 20, 2011, 05:30:51 AM »
‎"Mum, please don't feel guilty
It was just my time to go.
I see you are still feeling sad,
And the tears just seem to flow.
We all come to earth for our lifetime,
And for some it's not many years
I don't want you to keep crying
You are shedding so many tears.
I haven't really left you
Even though it may seem so.
I have just gone to my heavenly home,
And I'm closer to you than you know.
Just believe that when you say my name
I'm standing next to you,
I know you long to see me,
But there's nothing I can do.
But I'll still send you messages
And hope you understand,
That when your time comes to cross over,
I'll be there to take your hand. "

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Child Loss / patricks angel day
« on: December 08, 2010, 07:08:46 AM »
hello i havent been on in a while been some problem letting me login but thanks to tom it is now fixed thought i was doing better but meltdown yesterday  yesterday was the day they told us patrick had no brain activity and today the 8 is the day they unplugged him  i thought i was doing better but total meltdown yesterday it had been 3 years today he was 20 years old  well hope to talk more later but i am supposed to be at work now well i guess i will be late















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Child Loss / how to handle another death
« on: June 13, 2010, 08:33:28 PM »
my daughter was recentley married and an uncle of her husbands was just diagnosed with stage 4 lymphonia he  has been like an uncle to her and this is so upsetting to her losing him someone she cares deeply for and it also is bringing back all the memories of my son her brother dying 2 years ago it has brought all the memories back for me to but i am trying to help her she is exausted and has been at the hospital all weekend as they expect him to go any min i just wish i could make the pain easier . :tearyeyed:

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Child Loss / HAPPY 23 BIRTHDAY
« on: March 31, 2010, 05:35:15 AM »
I HAVE NOT BEEN POSTING IN A WHILE BUT I KEEP UP WITH EVERYONE SOMETIME IT IS JUST TO HARD BUT TODAY IS PARTICKS 23 BIRTHDAY AND I FELT THIS IS WHERE I NEED TO BE  I AM GOING TO THE CEMENTARY LATER TO LET HIS BALLOONS GO I WATCH TE
HEM TILL THEY GET CLOSE TO THE SKY AND THEN THEY DISSAPEAR I KNOW HE REACHES FOR THEM I HAVE BEEN WATCHING THE  CD REMEMBERING OUR CHILDERN THAT GRAIN OF SAND MADE I CANNOT THANK HER ENOUGH FOR THAT   MY DAUGHTER IS GETTING MARRIED  IN MAY AND I HAVE BEEN BUSY WITH THAT I SAW A WEB SITE THAT HAD MEMORY JEWERLY AND THERE WAS A PIN U COULD WEAR FOR THE LOVE ONES NOT HERE SHE IS ALSO HAVING A ROSE OUT FOR HIM  JUST WANTED EVERYONE TO KNOW I THINK ABOUT ALL OF YALL AND THIS IS WHERE I NEEDED TO WISH HIM A HAPPY BIRTHDAY THANKS

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Child Loss / 2 years
« on: December 07, 2009, 09:45:34 PM »
sorry i have not posted in a while my computer was down and just now getting it up and running agian   tommorrow is the 2nd angel date for my patrick i can not believe it has been 2 years or that he is gone i am still waiting for the time when this gets a little easier  we miss u so much

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Child Loss / Memories ( a friend sent me this)
« on: April 30, 2009, 06:33:06 PM »
                                                         


 
                                                MEMORIES

You can shed tears that he is gone,
or you can smile because he lived.

You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back
or you can open your eyes and see all he's left.

Your heart can be empty because you can't see him,
or you can be full of love he shared.

You can turn your back on tommorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tommorrow because of yesterday.

You can remember him and only that he's gone,
or you can cherish his memory and let it live on.

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back,
or you can do what he'd want : smile ,open your eyes,love and go on.

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Child Loss / birthday balloons
« on: March 31, 2009, 08:52:39 PM »
well it did stop raining long enough to let the birthday balloons go for my patrick i attached a note to them  they went so high and i told patrick to reach down and grab them  i blinked and they were gone , they made thier way to heaven

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Child Loss / patricks 22nd birthday
« on: March 30, 2009, 08:58:11 PM »
tomorrow march 31 would have been patricks 22nd birthday here is something my sister wrote

My nephew Patrick may be gone from this world but i know he is happy on the other side Happy birthday

Patrick, Twenty two years ago there was snow on the ground in Birmingham and our family had a new

baby boy .  Hope you are looking down from heaven when we blow out your birthday candles .

LOVE YOU PATRICK (LIL P) :-* :'(

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Child Loss / THE BROKEN CHAIN
« on: February 16, 2009, 09:09:05 PM »

THE BROKEN CHAIN

We little knew that morning that
that God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly , in death
we do the same.  It broke our
hearts to lose you, you did not go
alone; for part of us went with you,
the day God called you home.  You
left us peaceful memories , your love
is still our guide; and though we
canot see you , you are always at our
side. Our family chain is broken ,
and nothing seems the same;
but as God calls us one by one;
the Chain will link agian.








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Recommended Grief Books / beautiful boy by david sheff
« on: February 07, 2009, 01:57:45 PM »
beautiful boy is about a fathers journey through his sons addiction  if you have ever been through an addiction with some one you must read he also has a web site  www.davidsheff.com

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Child Loss / I recommend this book
« on: February 07, 2009, 01:35:24 PM »
I have been reading this book  Beautiful Boy by David Sheff  it is a fathers journey through his sons addiction  it is the best book i have read if anyone has gone through an addiction problem with a family
member it is worth reading  as one person said different drug ,different city ,different rehab, same story he also has a web site   www.davidsheff.com. I would like to hear some feed back   if it helped anyone else i lost my 20 year old son dec.2007 to a drug problem ~thanks

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Child Loss / A year ago today
« on: December 10, 2008, 07:59:27 PM »
A year ago today I buried my son . It doesn't seem like that long ago ,  I guess that is why I cannot quite get into the christmas spirit

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Child Loss / Patrick's 1st angleversary
« on: December 01, 2008, 09:02:18 PM »
this week will be Patricks first angleversary. they turned off the machines dec.8 2007 he went to the hospital dec.4 I think he really died then he was without oxygen for 12 mins and they brought him back but he never woke up  the only thing keeping him going was the machine and the medicine to keep his blood pressure up .they told us on dec 7 that there was no brain activity so we said our good by's i think i did it was such a fog i was walking in and they did not unplug him till the next day now i wonder why did they have us leave we should have been there when he was in surgery i feel like i left him alone as i put on his headstone he is in the arms of an angle. i still feel as much pain now as i did a year ago  i am just glad i have this site to go to thank all of you for being there~nancy

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Child Loss / special car tag
« on: September 01, 2008, 07:46:54 PM »
when it came time for my car tag to be renewed i had a vaniety plate made honoring or in rememberance of my son I put his nick name LIL P on it now everytime I go to my car i see it and it makes me smile a little :)

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Sibling Loss / birthday
« on: August 11, 2008, 08:35:14 PM »
I am usually on the child loss board but today i would like to wish my brother a 3rd heavenly birthday so HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY KENNETH  take care of my Patrick :-* :'(

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