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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: 5 months gone & Why are familys so false
« on: August 30, 2018, 06:11:56 AM »
Thank you to all for your thoughts and experiences.  I lost my husband of 30 years in April.  His angel date is April 6, 2018.  I love the angel day concept. 

My husband was ill the entire time of our marriage.  Heís had a lot of times they said he wasní going to make it and a miracle happened and he lived.  When I found him dead on the living room floor I was shocked to say the least.  We had no children but we had two dogs.  I had to put the lab to sleep two months after my husband died.  That was the hardest thing I ever did!  I go to his grave once a week with my two new puppies and my five year old bloodhound.  Having new life in the house has been a Godsend.  I do get emotional at the weirdest time mostly when Iím driving alone.  A song will trigger very deep emotions.  I thought it was just me to feel no one cares cause all they talk about is themselves and never ask how am I doing.  If they happen to ask how Iím doing is fleeting because if I do say how Iím doing they change the subject very quickly.  I know now how to assist future people that lose a loved one.  I know they are unprepared to face such sadness but it really HURTS.  My husband was a Vietnam Vet with extreme PTSD.  People have said to me you should have known this was coming and get over it.  Nobody wants to listen.  So Iím grateful to this site. 

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
« on: August 28, 2018, 10:00:04 AM »
Hi Everyone ~

As of July 1st, I will be posting your loved ones Angel Dates and Birthdays. If for some reason, you would rather not have their dates posted, simply message me with a "No" and I will make note of that. Your comfort is our main concern!

Please feel free to post your loved ones birthday and angel date here and/or on the calendar. If for some reason, you do not see your loved ones dates posted, all you need to do is message me or leave a message on this thread and I will be happy to add their dates.

If you would like me to post it on the calendar for you, I will be happy to do that, also.

Sending love and light to all.

Love,
Your Webhealing Family

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