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Recommended Grief Books / Re: I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye
« on: May 03, 2018, 07:23:41 AM »
Thanks for the recommendation. I started reading this book yesterday.

Very interesting description of the book. Thank you for sharing

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: How is Clapton doing Terry?
« on: April 29, 2018, 08:00:26 PM »
Yes, I agree that dogs and animals in general are very good companions and helpers for a person in a critical condition. They feel the emotional state of the person and help the fact that they are just there at that moment.

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: April 29, 2018, 07:57:35 PM »
hearyou, The work is really very distracting. But you need to rest, too. Take care of yourself. I hope you get better with time.

Main / Re: Daily accomplishments
« on: April 29, 2018, 07:51:51 PM »
Such a theme is a great idea. Today I went for a walk and went to a shelter for homeless animals. Communication with animals very well distracts from problems and sadness)

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: 10 months
« on: April 28, 2018, 05:20:54 PM »
I understand you. 10 months is not such a long time that you are completely fine. And do not torment yourself with guilt. I think Jim would not want that.

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: I lost my Clark Kent...
« on: April 28, 2018, 05:17:18 PM »
My sincere condolences to your loss. I know how hard it is for you now.

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: April 28, 2018, 05:14:04 PM »
Hi. I'm Veronica. Over the past 2 years, I lost a few close people. I accidentally stumbled upon this forum and began to read other people's stories, it's a little distracting. While I'm not ready to write about myself, so as not to aggravate my condition. But I will be glad to help others.

Recommended Grief Books / Re: Dark Emotions
« on: April 28, 2018, 05:04:20 PM »
I was interested in the description of the book. I know that I need to get along with my pain and anguish, and not go through the stage of denial, anger and so on. So thank you for sharing this book.

Loss of the pet for me is quite comparable to the loss of a person, it also hurts. Thank you for sharing your poem, it's wonderful.

You can not force another person to be with you. Just tell her that you love her and wait for her to decide whether she wants to continue the relationship

When the time passes, you will feel better. You just need to get used to it. In addition, you will see your daughter and grandchildren. Think about how it will be nice to get together for the holidays, share news and pleasant events. Do not be sad :)

Grief not related to deaths / Re: Not sure what to do
« on: April 24, 2018, 03:46:35 AM »
When losses occur one after another, it is very difficult not to fall into depression. Try to find something that brings you joy and pleasure. If you are lonely, buy a cat or a dog. Animals are very good friends and companions

I think your friend needs a psychologist. Books on self-help are not bad, but that's not enough.

Of course virtual communication will not replace the real, but still it is much easier to communicate with those who do not live with you in the same house. You can always write or chat on Skype. Do not be sad :)

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