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Sibling Loss / Re: Information about the Sibling Loss Board
« on: April 10, 2008, 12:07:22 PM »
Dear Jarenmom,

I know exactly how you feel. I lost my sister in an accident 20 years ago (she was 25, I was 17). But she still lives in my memory. I see her in my dreams. Being the older sister, she was always protective of me. On the day she died, I had had a fight with her. And I am still not able to get over my feeling of guilt. I just feel that I contributed to her death. But during moments of distress and crises, I somehow feel her presence. I somehow feel that she gets me through difficult circumstances.  Feels like she forgave me.
For a very long time I did not want to acknowledge her death. I did not let out my sorrows. I think that that is why I have not healed still.
It is good for you to cry out now. As hard as it sounds, you will eventually get over this phase.
My prayers for you.

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