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Child Loss / Sara would be 35 today!!
« on: January 31, 2015, 09:25:03 AM »



Today Sara would be 35 years old. But forever only 21♥
I can't imagine how life would be... at. all.
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http://sarafhunt.weebly.com/

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Child Loss / Re: Will be 13 years =(
« on: January 31, 2015, 09:14:33 AM »
Thank you all so much for your love and thoughts!
Know that mine are with you too~  it's a connection we'll always have ♥

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Child Loss / Re: Thinking of you this holiday season
« on: December 19, 2014, 02:15:42 PM »
HI Terry,
So glad you are here. You have been missed. I was able to contact you of FB, but I left it years ago too.
Yes the holidays certainly are hard and having family come visit isn't the easiest either. My sister wanted to come and visit, I have not seen her since her daughter died from suicide 4 years ago. and I told her to stay home. I just couldn't handle having her here.
Nice that you can honor Jeff and do all those amazing things for people and animals. That has to give you some major smiles and satisfaction too.
I'm here... and thinking about you as I have many many times, but just didn't have the strength to get back on here.
I do now!
Blessings!!
Sue  *Sara's* Mom

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Child Loss / Will be 13 years =(
« on: December 19, 2014, 02:08:49 PM »
HI
I have not been here in years and it's nice to see some familiar names and still so sorry at the same time.
I'm in such a state of disbelief and it's going to be 13 years this Dec 21,2014.
Even though it's 13 years gone by... for me, it's just as if it's only just happened.... Sara's death.
It never has EVER gotten any better. It's just way different. Sure there are times of laughter, but the sadness just takes over, constantly~
I have a LOT of catching up to do on this site~ will take some time.
Hoping you all the best for this Holiday Season~ it certainly does suck!
Please visit Sara's page
http://sarafhunt.weebly.com/
There is also a guestbook link on it as well to click on.
♥  Sue  Sara's Mom




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Child Loss / Re: Child Loss - board info
« on: March 23, 2012, 09:20:05 PM »
I agree with Sarah W.... although I don't post here but once a year now if even that.. I think that for the newer people, this should remain just as it is...
People that want more privacy.. can get it in other ways.   I have to ask, how much more privacy does one need? I mean. here you do have private messages... what else? People can email others.. that's private?  so.. it doesn't make sense to change this board at all.....

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Child Loss / 10 Years Into This
« on: December 25, 2011, 10:36:16 AM »
Ten Years Into This~
Just wanted to thank you Terry & Browneyedgirl for thinking of everyone and posting to keep our childrens memories alive!
I have not been here in years~  It's very sad to see the posts and no replies to them though..... feels empty.

It has not really gotten any better in all these years... in fact.. for me I think it's as bad as it was 10 years ago... could be because of the anniversary dates~ holidays.. which for me are the worst.. and tomorrow the 26th is the last time I kissed my daughter Sara~ goodbye.

Take care everyone as best as you can,  be gentle~ try and find some peace everyday~ LOVE your family you have here because they are~


Sue  *Sara's* Mom Forever

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Child Loss / Re: Jason's Angel Day ((((( LaVonne )))))
« on: November 15, 2010, 08:58:30 AM »
•♥•♥•♥•♥ ☜Thoughts are with you LaVonne & Jason☞ ♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•


♥ Sue *Sara's* Mom

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Child Loss / Re: Facebook
« on: November 09, 2010, 09:37:03 AM »
I too am on FB  if you would like to add me~  Sue Hunt

or message me here with your name and I'll add you... I know there are a few Sue Hunts on it!

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Child Loss / Re: Disability
« on: October 24, 2010, 11:26:07 PM »

The below was taken off the disability page. Good luck and please keep me informed... I'm ready to apply!
My husband has just applied, due to a life threatening illness he has had for the past year. So we'll see what happens with that one too. 
=) Sue *Sara's* Mom


"If you file an application for disability on the basis of one or more mental impairments, prepare for the strong probability of being denied at the initial claim level, and prepare for the likelihood of having to file appeals. However, on the bright side, it should be noted that the majority of claims that are brought before administrative law judges at disability hearings are approved, and this is particularly true for represented claimants. The downside to this fact, however, is the fact that the appeals process leading to a hearing can take 1-2 years."


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Child Loss / Re: Disability
« on: October 23, 2010, 09:35:17 PM »
Hi,
It's been a long time since I posted here, just re-visiting here and saw your post.
This is a question that I have brought up to my therapist. It's extremely hard to get it, in our (loss of child) case.
Doctors and medications play a huge roll in it.

I wish you luck

Sue  *Sara's*  Mom

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Main / Re: Family dying
« on: March 31, 2010, 07:47:42 PM »
Thank you Terry, Georgiapeaches, LaurenE, Luvinmike, for your support and love!

Love
Sueh

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Main / Family dying
« on: March 21, 2010, 01:53:23 PM »
Hi
I too usually post on the child loss board. I came there about 8 years ago when my daughter Sara passed at the age of 21 due to Leukemia.
I'm still not doing well because of her death.
A few months ago my father died from stomach cancer....
Last week my niece age 23 killed herself... I just got back from the funeral for her when the phone rang and I was told my Uncle died.
This just doesn't stop..... I just wonder who is next?
I can't even grieve for my father... as I'm just in too much shock I guess with everything else, and my daughter even though it's been over 8 years... is #1 on my mind 24/7.
How some people have so much crisis.. and others have such an easy life.. I just don't understand.
I hope one day we will.....    I pop in the child loss board every few months to post.. I hope to post more here soon.
I'm not that great at posting I guess or replying... but I'll try.
Be gentle with yourselves! and give *HUGS* to all you love as they may not be there tomorrow.
Sue *Sara's* Mom

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Child Loss / Re: Feeling Totally Useless and a Burden
« on: March 19, 2010, 02:42:33 PM »
Hi Don,
I can't remember my last post on this forum, but it has been a long long long time ago.
I decided to just pop in today and see if anything jumped at me. Your post did.
Your story seems, like it could be my husbands story. So.. I think all in all, what you are feeling is what most do as well.
I know it just sucks... But still  there is something to live for... there is a purpose to all this... one day we'll find out.
My life these past 8 years have not changed in anyway.. I STILL feel like I did in 2001. Lots of terrible health issues between me, my husband and my surviving son. My father just passed away a few months ago... and last week my niece committed suicide.. only 23.... it just never ends.  But.. still I must go on, for my son and husband. So.. with all the sadness and depression that I and my family endures.. we TRY and find something.. to help get us by another day.
I know that Sara would NOT want us to be living the life we have... so that helps us to make a change to do something fun... even if it's only once in a while...
Take care...
Sue *Sara's* Mom

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Child Loss / Re: Tears and alone
« on: July 26, 2009, 01:55:39 PM »
Rebecca
I hear you loud and clear. I feel somewhat the same. Mostly I'm more like.. what's the point anymore??  I want so badly to be with my Sara... I want the planet to blow up, so that everyone won't have to suffer and live on this hell hole of a planet any more. Most people think that's not a very nice thing to think. But it's how I feel. Everything is such a struggle. Just to think is overwhelming sometimes.
I look forward to sleeping at night... only to have a dream a contact a anything but be awake state.
I can't handle most people anymore, unless they have experienced a child loss. Because only then can they understand a little about life.. our lives etc...
I know it seems hard to help others when we can't even help ourselves..
Anyway... I'm in a pretty down state right now too... Just wanted you to know that I hear you!
Sue *Sara's* Mom

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Child Loss / Re: Wondering About (for Adele)
« on: July 11, 2009, 03:46:02 PM »
Adele,
My hearts goes to you... as I too suffered watching my Sara pass through her bone marrow transplant too.

Sue *Sara's* Mom

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