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Spouse, Partner Loss / Good Morning
« on: August 18, 2011, 06:21:22 AM »
Good morning everyone I am so glade to have found this site. My beloved husband passed on Aug. 7th. He was my best friend and now I feel so lost. We were married for 16 years but together 19 years and we never had a fight. All the words run through my head but when I try to say them to any one they get muddled. I try to put on a brave face when I'm working or with family or friends because I don't want to make them  uncomfortable or maybe start to avoid me. Three months ago my whole world was turned upside down. I'm greatful that he didn't linger or suffer for a long time and that he passed peacefully but I miss him so much it hurts. John was a Marine and when bad things were happening he would always say that you need to improvise,adapt and overcome, and that is what I told him I was going to do. Easier said then done!!! Just walking into the closet and seeing all his things there can cause a meltdown. I know that the world keeps turning and life goes on but life without him is unbearable at this point in time. I'm greatful for this site where I can write down what I'm feeling.John had cancer through out his whole body. He started not feeling well in April by Aug. he is gone.Thank You all for listening..........................Betty

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: August 15, 2011, 02:40:11 PM »
Terry, Thank you so very much.......................It means a lot to me.

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: August 14, 2011, 02:27:42 PM »
Hi my name is Betty. I lost my beloved husband one week ago today. He was my best friend and my soul mate.  In April he wasen't feeling well in June we found out that he had cancer all through his body. He was in the hospital for one week then went into Hospice. He passed on 8-7-11 the day after our 16th wedding anniversery. We were together almost 19 years and never had a fight. My family was here most of the week but now have all gone back to Pa. I really miss him. I can focuse during the day but bed time is the worst......

I'm so glad I found this site where I can talk about my feelings. Thank you all for listening.

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