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Spouse, Partner Loss / For Doug
« on: October 24, 2014, 08:33:08 AM »
Hi Doug,

You don't get it, and for that I envy you.

For anyone to come to a spouse loss forum and complain about their spouse is either being cruel or just doing something thoughtless, and I know you're not cruel. I'm sure I'm not the only one very hurt by that, as any one of us would give anything to have them back, faults and all.

I wish I could give a great analogy to give you some idea of what it feels like.

I understand you are going through a hard time with your wife, but don't you think there are better places than a spouse loss forum to ask for marital advice?

This is a terrible time of year for most of us on here Sad

I appreciate the apology, and I do hope things do work out for you.

Hugs to you and all the webhealing family here (((((((((((((((ALL))))))))))))))) <3

Spouse, Partner Loss / Mary and Bhutan
« on: June 15, 2014, 01:14:36 PM »
Link for a pic of Mary and and our first cat Bhutan
Her angel date 3 years ago today and I miss her more than ever  :( :love9:

Spouse, Partner Loss / Gratitude instead of anger today
« on: November 28, 2013, 11:03:02 AM »
Instead of becoming angry wondering why certain people are treating me the way they are, I'm just going to be grateful for the years of wonderful friendship that I have, for those whose incredible kindness and love are still being shown, and the great lessons that I am still learning from it.

So with that being said, Thank you and a very Happy Thanksgiving to all.

Spouse, Partner Loss / Well, I finally did it
« on: October 21, 2013, 08:54:03 AM »
Last night I went through Mary's winter coats, bagged 10 of them up for Goodwill, which is where I took them today.

I'm sure someone can use them this winter, and they could probably use so much more.

She was such a generous loving soul that I am sure she is happy with this :)

A first step, and there is so much more I can bring to them. One day at a time :)

Love and hugs to all
(((((((ALL))))))))) <3


Spouse, Partner Loss / Happy Birthday Browneyedgirl
« on: September 13, 2013, 07:08:34 PM »
Big Happy Birthday to Browneyedgirl :-)  :occasion13:

I hope you had a great day :-)

Sending much love and hugs your way

(((((((((Browneyedgirl)))))))) <3


Main / Deleting account question
« on: August 20, 2013, 08:13:56 AM »
Wasn't sure where to put this.

If I delete my account would that also delete all of the posts I made?

Spouse, Partner Loss / Call out to Browneyedgirl
« on: May 18, 2013, 05:50:21 AM »
Hi Pam,

I've been wondering how you are doing...Haven't seen you post in a long time and I hope you are ok.

Please let me know.

(((((((((((((((((Pam))))))))))))))) <3

Spouse, Partner Loss / Happy Birthday Lisa :)
« on: April 06, 2013, 07:09:07 AM »
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LISA!!!  :occasion13:

Hope your day is as wonderful as you are :)

Love and hugs to you,
((((((((((((((Lisa))))))))))))) <3


Spouse, Partner Loss / Missing her is killing me
« on: July 24, 2012, 02:40:21 PM »

Spouse, Partner Loss / I wish I could do this
« on: July 06, 2012, 05:02:18 PM »
I Resign
I am hereby officially tendering my resignation as an adult.
 I have decided I would like to accept the responsibilities
 of an 8-year-old again.
 I want to go to McDonaldís and think that itís a four star restaurant.
 I want to sail sticks across a fresh mud puddle and make ripples with rocks.
 I want to think M&Ms are better than money because
 you can eat them.
 I want to lie under a big oak tree and run a lemonade stand with my friends on a hot summer day.
 I want to return to a time when life was simple.
 When all you knew were colors, multiplication tables, and nursery rhymes, but that didnít bother you, because you didnít know what you didnít know and you didnít care.
All you knew was to be happy because you were blissfully unaware of all the things that should make you worried or upset.
 I want to think the world is fair. That everyone is honest and good.
 I want to believe that anything is possible.
 I want to be oblivious to the complexities of life and be overly excited by the little things again.
 I want to live simple again.
 I donít want my day to consist of computer crashes, mountains of paperwork, depressing news, how to survive more days in the month than there is money in the bank, doctor bills, gossip,
 illness, and loss of loved ones.
I want to believe in the power of smiles, hugs, a kind
 word, truth, justice, peace, dreams, the imagination, mankind, and making angels in the snow.
SoÖhereís my checkbook and my car keys, my credit cards and all my responsibility.
I am officially resigning from adulthood. And if you want to discuss this further, youíll have to catch me first, ícause,
ďTag! Youíre it.Ē

Spouse, Partner Loss / Trip to George Anderson, medium
« on: May 24, 2012, 10:14:40 AM »

Spouse, Partner Loss / Halfpint?
« on: March 29, 2012, 02:20:45 PM »
Hello Halfpint,

Hope you see this and know that MyLou (Lisa) and I miss chatting with you and are wondering how you have been.

Hope everything is ok. Please let us know how you are.

Love and hugs to you,


"In the future, we will be preparing a page for Health Care Professionals and Researchers, explaining how to make the best use of this board" Really???

I hadn't realized that this was going on. If I had known I would not have been so open, and wish I could delete some of my more intimate posts.

I really don't like the thought that my misery and that of the others on here is going to be used by someone and also by groups of people who find it interesting to them and plan on using it for their own gain.

I hope I misunderstood that part of the post, and if not then I really hope that Tom seriously reconsiders this move.

I greatly appreciate all the great friends I have made on here, and for all the support I have been given. What I don't appreciate is opening this up for the sake of 'research'.

Love and hugs to all,

Spouse, Partner Loss / Left in tears
« on: March 04, 2012, 06:56:28 AM »

Spouse, Partner Loss / Message in a bottle
« on: February 04, 2012, 07:25:03 AM »

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