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Spouse, Partner Loss / My sister loss her husband
« on: January 03, 2016, 02:48:45 PM »
Hi Everyone,

I haven't been on for a while.  My sister's husband passed away on December 30th 2015.  So sad my heart is broken for her and my nephew, his family, our family and friends. He was loved by all and was a kind person. He was only 52 yrs old.

My sister now wears these shoes, which I wish she didn't have too.  I know the pain she has , as I can relate losing My Lou.  She has a long journey ahead.

I will try to get her signed up here but not sure if she will. 

I will be there for her if she needs to scream, cry , or a me to hold her tight. I love my sister and nephew with all my heart and soul.



Parent Loss / Terry's Daddy Heavenly Birthday
« on: November 24, 2015, 02:32:45 AM »
((((((Terry )))))))

Wishing your Daddy a Heavenly Birthday  :engel2:.  Hoping your heart was filled with your beautiful memories and peace of your Daddy.

Thinking of you always.

Love you  ,

Sending you the warmest hugs of love !!! :icon_flower:


Spouse, Partner Loss / The Story of the TREE
« on: March 01, 2015, 04:15:23 PM »

I just wanted to share this my best friend / sister sent this to me even printed it on beautiful paper for me.  We aren't sisters by blood but we truly know we are sisters.

I had just recently had a friend now ex friend leave my life.  I am OK with it because this person I truly was there for and would forgive them when they did something wrong to me.  This person is a leaf/branch to me.  I wish no ILL towards this person but I would never take them back as my friend.  I had other friends like this person and it's OK they aren't meant to be in my life.  I am better off without people like this.

I am sure everyone can relate to this.

The Story of the TREE By; Tyler Perry
“Some people are meant to come into your life for a lifetime, some for only a season and you got to know which is which. And you’re always messing up when you mix those seasonal people up with lifetime expectations.

I put everybody that comes into my life in the category of a tree. Some people are like leaves on a tree. When the wind blows, they’re over there… wind blow that way they over here… they’re unstable. When the seasons change they wither and die, they’re gone. That’s alright. Most people are like that, they’re not there to do anything but take from the tree and give shade every now and then. That’s all they can do. But don’t get mad at people like that, that’s who they are. That’s all they were put on this earth to be. A leaf.

Some people are like a branch on that tree. You have to be careful with those branches too, ‘cause they’ll fool you. They’ll make you think they’re a good friend and they’re real strong but the minute you step out there on them, they’ll break and leave you high and dry.

But if you find two or three people in your life that’s like the roots at the bottom of that tree you are blessed. Those are the kind of people that aren’t going nowhere. They aren’t worried about being seen, nobody has to know that they know you, they don’t have to know what they’re doing for you but if those roots weren’t there, that tree couldn’t live.

A tree could have a hundred million branches but it only takes a few roots down at the bottom to make sure that tree gets everything it needs. When you get some roots, hold on to them but the rest of it… just let it go. Let folks go.”

This analogy struck a chord deep within me. There are so many relationships we will have during the course of our life. We all have had people that we have been in love with or had supposed best-friends who have already come and gone. (In fact, I had one particular friend years ago who I would have expected to do my eulogy and we haven’t spoken in years!)

There are people who come in and out of your life and it hurts to go through the process, but the truth of it is you have to let it go. There are more people you will meet; some who will only turn out to be leaves and branches, but always remember to cherish those who are your roots. These are the people who truly know you through and through; it could be a family member, a grade school friend, even a high school sweetheart, but if you can count on one hand the number of friends who are like “roots” then take comfort in the fact that you are truly blessed in life.

Spouse, Partner Loss / WAITING IN THE LIGHT
« on: February 14, 2015, 04:01:43 AM »
Waiting in the Light

When you wake up tomorrow
And grief takes your breath away
Know I watch over you
And walk with  you each day

Though, unseen, I stay close by
We're never far apart
The love we share gives testament
To all that's in your heart

I see the way you struggle now
To hold your head up high
I'm proud of you because I know
How very hard you try

I wish I could hold you close
And ease the pain you feel
I want so much to talk to you
And promise that you'll heal

One day you will see me again
Once more within your sight
I'll be right here to walk you in
I'm waiting in the light


Spouse, Partner Loss / Poem
« on: December 21, 2014, 05:26:03 PM »
I came across this Poem and wanted to share.  I didn't write this one.

I know we all feel the same ...

I thought of you today,
but that is nothing new.

I thought about you yesterday
and the days before that too.

I think of you in silence,
I often speak your name.

All I have are memories and
your picture in a frame.

Your memory is a keepsake
from which I'll never part.

God has you in His arms,
I have you in my heart.



Spouse, Partner Loss / CHASING CARS
« on: December 17, 2014, 05:00:02 PM »

You loved this song and that year it came out I bought you the CD.  It was one of your stocking stuffers. You sung this song to me all the time.  

Would you lie with me and just forget the world. I remember you singing this to me like yesterday.

I so miss you heart and soul darling  :tearyeyed:

Spouse, Partner Loss / Crawlig out of my skin
« on: November 16, 2014, 10:25:28 AM »
I just feel like I am crawling out of my skin.  I miss my old life now for almost 4 years. I just wished I had made Lou go to the hospital that day,  maybe he would still be here.

I have plans with my gf today I am hoping it will keep my mind occupied for awhile.

Today is just one of those really really BAD DAYS :tearyeyed:



Spouse, Partner Loss / I know we all feel the same , wanted to share
« on: October 05, 2014, 03:42:29 AM »
The moment that you died
my heart was torn in two
one side filled with heartache,
the other died with you.

I often lie awake at night,
when the world is fast asleep, and
take a walk down memory lane,
with tears upon my cheeks.

Remembering you is easy,
I do it everyday,
but missing you is heartache
that never goes away.

I hold you tightly within my heart
and there you will remain.
Until the joyous day arrives,
That we will meet again.

Unknown Author

« on: May 15, 2014, 02:25:27 AM »
((((((((( KEVIN ))))))))))

HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY TO YOUR MARY  :engel2: ............. I am wishing that you had beautiful memeories that filled your heart  :love9:

I am sorry I had missed posting this yesterday 5/14 ....................

Sending you , love , peace , hope and light



Spouse, Partner Loss / SHE CRIES
« on: May 10, 2014, 04:30:58 PM »
Hi Everyone,

Just wanted to share this song. I came across and it hits home especially in the dark days.

This is for us whether widow or widower.

"She Cries" original country song Small | Large

Spouse, Partner Loss / YESTERDAY , FEB 8TH
« on: February 09, 2014, 03:24:31 AM »
Yesterday was Feb 8th... another hard date.  Lou proposed to me 6 yrs ago. He got down on one knee and said the most beautiful words/speech made me cry. I said YES YES YES so many times  :love4: He put my ring on my finger.

We went to the poconos that weekend. It was so beautiful.

Yesterday I cried a lot ..... I miss him so much.

Also, missing my friend her birthday was yesterday. I met Mary Theresa on my journey she lived in a different state. Our friendship/love grew. I wanted to meet her a few times but she had gotten sick. Mary Theresa passed away Jan 17,2014.  I miss her so much too.

Yesterday, I let balloons up to Heaven for Lou and I for our anniversary. I let balloons up for Mary Theresa's bday.

These dates will always be etched in my heart/soul.

Life isn't fair sometimes , right ? ugh


Spouse, Partner Loss / The Broken Fork
« on: January 23, 2014, 04:55:56 PM »
My friend sent this to me.

What a touching video!




Spouse, Partner Loss / BEAM ME UP
« on: December 23, 2013, 02:34:06 AM »
I know I had shared this song awhile back.

I am a PINK fan and this is such a beautiful song.

I wish Lou could Beam me up ....

P!nk - Beam Me Up (Official Lyric Video) Small | Large

Spouse, Partner Loss / MY GIRLFRIEND'S MOM
« on: December 22, 2013, 03:14:20 AM »
This week my girlfriend Kathy called me.  She told me that our girlfriend Debbie's mom passed away.  My heart just broke. I tried to call Debbie but with her being in shock all the feelings we have with death.  She never called back and I understood.

Yesterday was the funeral. Debbie has 2 sisters and 2 brother, actually she has 3 sisters but 1 had passed 8 yrs ago. Debbie was reading her mom the cards that were in the coffin.  My tears just flooded my face and I went next to her to hold onton her.  

Her whole family just hugged me so tightly and nieces and nephews that I don't see oftern.  They were walking up to me,

Her mom was/is a loving mom, person, forgave didn't hold onto to grudges.  She loved her children with all her heart.  The love that I seen yesterday made me smile too. You could not love her. She was so special and touched everyone's life, and of course mine too

Rest in Peace Ms C - I know you will always watch over your children, family and friends. Words can't begin to say how much you will be missed.

Love Always,


Spouse, Partner Loss / Oh I miss My Lou
« on: December 14, 2013, 07:25:14 AM »
Just having one of those bad days, we all know how it goes, ugh

Tears flooding my face

I miss Lou so much.  He used to sing this song to me.  

My Lou/Angel I love you with all my heart/soul and miss you sooooooooooooo

The Jeff Healey Band - Angel Eyes (Music Video) Small | Large

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