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Child Loss / Just stopped in to say Hi
« on: November 29, 2008, 02:28:02 PM »
It's been quite some time since I was last here and I still see some familiar names. My road, 4 years and 6 months has been very hard, but I am now getting to that turn where I think I can make it...if nothing else for my remaining children and hubby.

My heart goes out to everyone and I am sorry we all have to be on sites as this. I remember when I found this site, I was literally insane(looking back) for the past 4 years after Jims death. This site helped me through my darkest moments and I am thankful for that.

Love & Hugs to all
Brun

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Child Loss / Re: overcome triggers ~self help article
« on: January 01, 2007, 05:13:16 PM »
I too am thankful for posts like this. Weather to make use of it is up to us but I think of it as an opportunity to help on this road. A tool which might help us go another step forward.

It also seems that way to me that Deb has a prob with Cherri. If it can be worked out it should be done within private emails NOT on the board.

Now I must state my opinion!! This board has become too politically correct for me. Don't say this ...don't do that.....Some times we just don't have control over what comes out and policing every word we say sounds absurd to me. No one on this board wants to hurt another intentionally, we are ALL in the same boat!!
So in essence...since I am NOT politically correct I take my leave of absence here.....I just don't need this !!!!!!!!!!!!

Love to all on your journey,
Brun

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Child Loss / Re: Birthdays & Angel Days
« on: January 01, 2007, 12:44:41 PM »
James Edward Kendig 3rd. ( Jim )


Birthday * January 26, 1966


Angel Date + May 13, 2004

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Child Loss / Re: overcome triggers ~self help article
« on: January 01, 2007, 12:15:41 PM »
I don't get it ??? What exactly is your point here Deb ?? What is sooo wrong with the post ???????
I see it as a helpful article being put out there. If you can use it fine, if you can't  ignore it and move on.
As with a book I read it , take what I need from it and leave the rest!!

Peace,
Brun

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Child Loss / Re: additional options upload tool
« on: December 28, 2006, 05:43:12 PM »
yes, Cherri.i have had that prob all day today. Another one i also have is when i log in it tells me......... Forbidden, even though I put my password in. It takes 3 or 4 tries to even get on the page.

Hugs,
brun

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Child Loss / Re: Been down
« on: December 28, 2006, 05:38:22 PM »
dear Louise,
everything you are feeling is ok,this is our new normal. when a wave hits me I ask the same question too....am I going crazy or did I go crazy and just have a few normal moments ??
This year was the worst for me . I had my big meltdown before the holidays so the actual holiday was just blaaa..no joy in things any more.

My daughter came home, which made me happy but she did most of  the food .....I just didn't care. Feel like I'm in this la, la world..most of the time I just don't care.

Sending you love & peace....with hopes that the new year will be softer on all of us.

Love and hugs,
Brun

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Child Loss / Re: Are my post getting seen?
« on: December 28, 2006, 12:18:25 PM »
Chy....I too am so very sorry. This is the first time I have been on since the Holidays.

Happy belated  heavenly birthday to your handsome son Scott..may he send you signs that he is at peace. 21, the magic age for kids....the freedom age !!!


(((((HUGS)))))

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Child Loss / Good Site please visit !
« on: December 28, 2006, 12:13:25 PM »
I wanted to share this web site with everyone. It has some good things on there ,including a video interview . I just received  the Portrait Of Hope DVD haven't watched it yet .....but need some HOPE and REASON to go on.


www.griefhaven.org


Hugs to all,
Brun

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Child Loss / Re: I HOPE I'M DOING THIS RIGHT
« on: December 27, 2006, 05:32:47 PM »
I totally agree that the 2. year is very, very hard ! The holidays were much harder to bear than the first . The whole year has been disaster for me, no goals....and I try so hard but it is NOT working. I pretend, but on the inside it doesn't want to go along with my pretense.

I keep trying for my remaining children and my hubby. That's about the only thing that keeps me going at this time.



many Hugs,
Brun

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Child Loss / Re: (((Danielel Marie)))...I Miss You Terribly!!!
« on: December 22, 2006, 06:00:14 PM »
John
my heart goes out to you. I know the pain...and the longing for our child. No words can take the pain away or make you feel better. I am so sorry ! We've been thrown on a road we don't want to be on.
Know that I understand and I pray for strength for you to make it through this difficult time.....
Peace and Love,
Brun

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Child Loss / Re: UPDATE ON MY DAD
« on: December 21, 2006, 11:12:30 AM »
Dear Dottie,

I am so sorry life is making your road even more difficult, as if we didn't have enough to bear.
I've been through those things as well and more with my mom and my step dad .

I understand what you are going through. I can not give you answers, but know that I am with you in thoughts and always here for you.
Sending you a great big cyberhug !!!!!
with love,
Brun

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Child Loss / Re: Help, has any one gone threw this?
« on: December 19, 2006, 11:03:52 PM »
yes, Virgie I had similar circumstances although the monetary accounts were quite small. It wasn't discovered  until months after that Jim had money in his checking account.

I got the same story !!!They  needed to find a father who had gone missing almost 30 years .
I was furious as well. Fortunately I knew someone who could pull some strings without all that executor crap.......but remember the money was a small amount.

She got the money released for me, which I  donated to the Salvation Army there in Jims name.

It is a terribly injustice ..since they don't give a rip about the circumstances ,  just go by the law.

Seek the best attorney money can buy to fight this . My thoughts are with you.

hugs, Brun

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Child Loss / Re: POEM-My First Christmas In Heaven
« on: December 19, 2006, 10:23:22 PM »
I framed a similar poem last year and out it out next to Jims picture at christmas time..........it touches the heart.

Hugs,
brun

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Child Loss / Re: Today, 12/19, is John's Birthday
« on: December 19, 2006, 05:47:25 PM »
Happy Heavenly Birthday dear John.....know that your mama misses you terribly!!!


Pat sending you warm Hugs.......on this day.....Our boys were so close in age Jim will be 41 in January. Funny , I still write "will be"
and yes ....the memories of our first born !!!

((((HUGS)))) my dear friend

Brun

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Child Loss / Re: Nine moths today
« on: December 19, 2006, 05:39:04 PM »
I know the pain......thinking of you and your beautiful daughter Keren !


Many warm ((((HUGS)))))

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