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Child Loss / Re: Cory's 33rd Birthday today
« on: September 03, 2008, 02:09:48 PM »
Happy Birthday Cory.  Please send your family a special message today.

Thinking of you today Jo.  May peace be with you.

Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: How tough are Angel anniversaries for you?
« on: March 19, 2008, 02:12:06 PM »
Thank you all very much.  I do truly appreciate your words of wisdom, and I hope that this day is over soon.

Peace to you all,

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / How tough are Angel anniversaries for you?
« on: March 18, 2008, 08:53:38 AM »
Hello All -

I am sorry I have not been here in a while.  (You have been in my thoughts and daily prayers however)

Going through a tough time right now.  Dante's angel date is tomorrow and I have been a wreck for weeks.  I had to leave work yesterday - it just got to be too much.

Do you have a tough time with your child's angel date?  Was the first one the hardest?  Any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. 

Peace to you all,

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: Danielle's 2nd Angelversary
« on: February 21, 2008, 09:52:32 AM »
Thinking of you today John - I hope you feel your precious Danielle all around you.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Blessed Angel and Birthday days to those I've missed.
« on: February 06, 2008, 07:55:20 AM »
I have not been here in  a while, so I wanted to say I hope those of you who have had birthdays or angel dates recently are doing OK.  I know those days are hard (as we all know) but you were in my thoughts and prayers. 

Been having a rough time of it lately.  Depression is a constant enemy - I fight it nearly every day.  The 1 year anniversary of Dante leaving us is coming up and each day that passes brings a more difficult battle.  I just have to survive - as we all do.

Peace to us all,

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: ARE YOU A GRIEF VICTIM OR GRIEF SURVIVOR?
« on: January 14, 2008, 07:41:40 AM »
I have to be honest John - I am both.  There are times when I feel like the survivor you describe, and other times where I feel like the victim you describe.

I would guess I am not the only one either...

Thanks for the post though.  I always appreciate your words of wisdom.

Take care friend and peace to us all,

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: G Mail chat
« on: January 08, 2008, 09:35:27 AM »
Hello Rebecca -

I have g-mail chat on my blackberry so it's always with me.  I think my log on name is either: ignoranceisnotblissworld or it might be Overfiend TFer.

(I know that second name sounds weird but it's a VERY old inside joke with our family).

Please feel free to send me an invite - I would be happy to chat whenever!

Take care friend,

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: Marc
« on: January 03, 2008, 08:57:24 AM »
I am so sorry Judy & Max.  That report must have been incredibly tough on you both. 

You will be in my thoughts and prayers today...

Peace to you both,

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: Danielle Marie's Birthday (13)
« on: January 03, 2008, 08:55:17 AM »
Thinking of you John on this difficult upcoming day.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Danielle - Happy Heavenly Birthday!  Please send your Daddy a present to let him know you are OK.

Peace to you John,

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: Brynn and January 2nd
« on: December 31, 2007, 08:06:08 AM »
Thinking of you Elaine as the day approaches.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.

I hope that Brynnie sends you a sign from Heaven.  Something to let you know that she is okay.

Peace to you,

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: How Can It Be?
« on: December 31, 2007, 08:00:31 AM »
Thinking of you today Melissa.  Sending warm thoughts and hugs to you across the miles.

I seem to feel just the opposite.  I can't wait for time to pass - it can't pass quickly enough.  Some days I just want this life to be over with - to see whats "beyond" - to see my Dante again.

Hoping moments of peace find us all in 2008,

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: Owen, our beloved mystery man
« on: December 31, 2007, 07:56:45 AM »
You are right owensmom, and so not alone.  My Dante passed away 8 1/2 months ago - some days it feels like a lifetime ago, some days it feels like yesterday.

I too have the same vision - the same "oxygen" as you.  The only thing that keeps me going is the thought of seeing Dante again.  I have to believe it.  I have no other choice.

Peace to you - and us all - in 2008.

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: Its almost here and almost over
« on: December 24, 2007, 07:24:15 AM »
These next two days are going to be so very hard.  I have ignored Christmas up to this point, but I woke up this morning feeling so very sad - I haven't been this sad in months.

Let this first Christmas without Dante pass quickly...

Peace to us all,

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: suicide of teen granddaughter
« on: December 19, 2007, 08:03:32 AM »
I am so very sorry Bea.  I wish there was some magic thing I could say to make you feel better, but there is not.  Please just know that we are here to listen, offer advice when we can, or just cry with you.  Whatever we can do to help each other on this horrible journey is available here.

Peace to you Bea,

Marty - Dante's Dad

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Child Loss / Re: Cory 9-3-75 to 12-19-05
« on: December 19, 2007, 07:59:18 AM »
That was a beautiful tribute Jo.  I hope Cory sends you a special sign today - letting you know that he is OK.

Thinking and praying for us all today...

Marty - Dante's Dad

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