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Spouse, Partner Loss / Still feel lost
« on: April 04, 2011, 06:13:42 AM »
Reading the posts on this thread has been a comfort to me.  My husband died just two weeks ago, and every time I come across a photo of him, some note he's written about something he wanted to remember, one of his beautiful landscape photos...it feels like I've just run into a wall.  I feel like I can't move, or breathe, can't stop crying.  It's still hard to imagine going through the rest of my life without him, but it's comforting to know that people can eventually socialize after a loss like this.  Right now, socializing seems way beyond me.

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Bad Night Tonight
« on: April 02, 2011, 06:29:51 PM »
I especially appreciated the post from allalone.  It sounds as though we're in almost the exact same place...husband died of cancer, in my case, almost two weeks ago.  I feel like I just won't be able to bear the pain.  It's good to read about people who have managed a whole month of grieving.  Even my cat is walking around in  daze.  I want Jim back.  I need him. 

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: April 02, 2011, 06:22:46 PM »
I'm new here but wanted to introduce myself and my situation.  My husband, who was the love of my life, died almost two weeks ago from lung cancer.  I had friends and relatives all around me until late yesterday, and now I feel like I've been kicked in the chest.  It hurts to breathe.  I sometimes cry so much I think I'll never be able to stop.  I feel lost.  I don't know how people stand pain like this.

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