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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: March 11, 2018, 11:07:59 AM »
Hi JustMark
You are right no matter of the time it is still a shock when the time comes.  I think the healing has to come on its own no matter how long.  I don't feel any hurry and I just keep going one day at a time. Will have you in my prayers as you approach one year. Hope you have a peaceful time and enjoy many good memories. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience.

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: March 05, 2018, 07:36:08 AM »
Hi JustMark
Thank you for your reply. I agree there are certain times of the day that are over whelming. Little triggers that cause a wave of thoughts and feelings. Things are very different now. Richard had lung cancer so we had a year of treatment before his passing. During that year we did a lot of talking and learned a lot about each other even though we were together for 34 years. Some surprises! lol but the time was well spent. I think that year was the hardest just knowing the outcome no matter what. But even though our lives were consumed with cancer and treatments and side effects it did give us time unlike a sudden death.
I am sorry about the loss of your wife. I think guitar is very good way to keep busy and sort feelings. Glad you have that. And I am sure Gina is watching and very happy you are leaning!
One day at a time and a lot of prayers!

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: February 25, 2018, 07:11:39 AM »
Hi mousewife
Thanks for your response. Nice to hear from you.
I believe all is well and I must embrace change. No one likes change lol.
But I also believe you find happiness from yourself. Time will tell since it's only been 4 months.
One day at a time

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: February 22, 2018, 11:23:37 AM »
Hi. My name is Kim. My husband passed away on Dec 4 2017. 
I am doing ok. Just get overwhelmed from time to time.  Taking it day to day. Keeping busy
With work and hobbies. Nice to know there is a place to go and
Chat if needed. I am a better listener than a talker.  Thank you for being here.

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