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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Time for me to heal.
« on: October 09, 2015, 08:44:09 AM »
I am doing some volunteer work and have joimed a grief support group.  I am trying to be more active in my daughters school activities. My dog and I spend time outside in the yard.  I am trying to go through his belongings a little at a time. That is helping in that there are pictures of happier times.

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Time for me to heal.
« on: October 08, 2015, 01:07:36 PM »
My daughter has been to a children's psych hospital and is seeing a psychiatrist monthly and a counselor weekly.   She still gets bad thoughts but is now able to talk to me about it. I am trying to find new friends as I think I have burdened my current friends too much.

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Time for me to heal.
« on: October 06, 2015, 09:48:42 PM »
I am in counseling but it still doesn't help my daughter.  I am more worried about her than me.

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Time for me to heal.
« on: October 06, 2015, 08:19:52 PM »
Does anyone want to talk to me? I really need some help!!!!

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Time for me to heal.
« on: October 06, 2015, 08:54:46 AM »
I am new to this and havent had too many people to talk to.

My husband and I had been on the outs for about 3 years. We had separate bedrooms, the whole works. In May of last year I had had enough and told him I was going to start looking for an apartment. June 25, 2014 he attempted suicide in our house with our teenage daughter in the house. He tried to slit his wrist. I found him and called the ambulance. He was an amputee and when he came to he jumped off the exam table badly breaking his good leg.

By this time I had enough and told him not to come back. He got an apartment and moved out. In the  meantime he suffered some medical issues. September 18 ,2014 his dad, my daughters grandpa passed away. September 20, 2014 my husband was found expired in his apartment. Died of natural consequences.

The day before Thanksgiving in 2014 we lost our 11 year old dog suddenly. January a 29 year old niece passed away.February we lpst another cousin. In July 2015, my daughter attempted suicide.

I have been so busy taking care of everyone else, I have forgotten about me. So now hat everyone else is doing better I am just starting some of the hardest parts of the grief process. I go to a counselor but they haven't been through what we have been through and I just think they don't under stand.

Just looking for someone to talk to. No grief support groups in our town.

Thanks in advance.

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