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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: December 15, 2010, 07:08:59 AM »
So sorry to hear about your loss. It has been 11 months for me and with these holidays I have been having a real hard time with depression and such. I  do have a boyfriend who is a christian and an undertaker so he knows what I am going through and he is very supportive. But it just takes time to heal and to be able to move on. I really miss my husband escpically now with Christmas upon us but I try and think of the good times and remember the times we shared. I know this probably won't help anyone but hopefully it will in time help me. Merry Christmas to you all and keep your head up and lean on God.  :angel11:

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: heartbroken
« on: December 05, 2010, 07:49:59 PM »
I feel for you heartbroken I know what you are going through. I am really worried about Christmas. I have been thinking today that we may just need to go to my families for Christmas I just don't know if I can do it here with just my daughter and me. I just don't know. I know I have to do it for her but I don't know how I will get through. I wished I knew what was best to do for us. I know without God I would not be as far as I am now but it is so hard. Sometimes I feel so lost. This has been the toughest 11 months of my life.

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: heartbroken
« on: December 04, 2010, 05:31:42 PM »
I know it has only been 11 months but I have always had my husband and now I feel so alone. I asked people if there was a certain time a widow should wait before looking for someone. All told me it is up to the person. I miss my husband very much but my new boyfriend is a funeral director so he knows what I am going through and he has been so supportive. Especially since the holidays have gotten here. I was doing better but now I kind of have the holiday blues because I remember last year at this time getting ready for Christmas and buying him gifts. He never wanted me to spend money on him but I liked doing that. My daughter won't talk to me about her dad and yes I am thinking of getting counseling for her and I. Like I said he died in our home in our bed and it has really been tough. I since then have gotten a bigger trailer for her and I to live in and it is starting to feel like home. But for a long time it just made me sad because I was only able to buy it because I had life insurance. So I hope to be able to make it through Christmas without a melt down. I feel for so many on this topic because I know what they are all going through but I know there is nothing I can say that will help. God bless everyone.

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: heartbroken
« on: December 03, 2010, 07:23:23 AM »
Hi I am new to this but have been informed it would be good to talk to people that have been through what I have. I lost my husband on Jan 13th, 2010. He died of a heart attack at home in front of my eyes. There was nothing I could do to help him but I question myself if I couldn't of done something. I have never had anyone die in front of me before and it has really bothered me. I have a 17 yr old daughter who is really mad at the world. I have tried to move on but it is hard. The holidays have really gotten me down. We were married for 22 yrs. I do have a boyfriend now and he is the one that suggested I come to this web site. He is very supportive and understanding. But one big problem is is that my daughter can't stand him. It is breaking my heart to hurt her but I know my husband is not coming back and I have to move on. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

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