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Sibling Loss / Re: Lost My Sister the pain is awful
« on: June 29, 2007, 02:34:24 PM »
Hello there,

I understand your grief, I also lost my sister 2 years back and the pain is still kinda raw...But yeah, as everyone says, you start living with it...

Dreams...I dont know, I dream of my sis every night...Sometimes, she is really happy, at other times, I see myself doing things together..its all really nice..but when I wake up, I yearn for her..just to talk to her once...ask her if she is fine...

so, may be, dreams are a way to communicate.. or may be not.. but they make me closer to my sister...

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Sibling Loss / Re: The holiday sucked
« on: December 29, 2006, 09:33:55 AM »

After reading ur posts,  I understand I m not the only one to lose a loved one.....But why does it happen??? its so cruel!! I mean I understand that people get old and then die.. but I cannot accept death in young age..or some unwelcome disease...it just isnt fair!! What does God want to prove by that?







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Sibling Loss / Re: New to sharing grief
« on: December 29, 2006, 09:29:04 AM »
Hi all,

I am checking this site after,say 10 days. I had this fear that noone wud reply me...but when I saw responses, I cannot express how happy( yeah, thats the right word!) I felt...happy becoz now I know there are people out here who understand how I feel....Thanks to all of you for ur support..

I had a question....I had many gifts given to me by my sis...but when she passed away, I donated most of it to charity because just looking at it brought me to tears...but now I miss having those with me...I still have one necklace she gave and when i wear that, I feel close to her..is it normal??? I wish I had more of her stuff to remember her..I have kept all of our together photos..its still difficult to look at them...but my childhood is shared with her..

whenever I tell my husband any account of my childhood, I dont mention but I start missing my sister......


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Sibling Loss / New to sharing grief
« on: December 19, 2006, 04:07:40 PM »
Hi all..

Found this site after reading the book " dont let death ruin ur life" ...I dnt know whether I wud be able to express my grief...I have lost my younger sister last yr and still cant overcome the grief...I dream abt her everyday...and always wish she were alive...We had not met for 1 year when she died and I dont even know the real cause of her death...Her husband says she died of food poisoning....

I still feel guilty for not talkin to her for long....I feel guilty for this to happen...I dont know how to cope with this....I dont talk to anybody abt my grief.not even to my husband becoz I believe he wont understand my loss....

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