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Main / Re: I need some input to my situation
« on: February 16, 2009, 01:36:55 PM »
I can appreciate this. Just last weekend I finally finished giving away my husband's clothes. He passed in early September. What made me decide at last to do this was I realized that, for me, it hurt more to see those clothes every day than it would hurt to give them away. They were just clothes. They weren't him.
I hate to hear the expression, "time to move on." Exactly where are we supposed to be moving to? It seems that there are better days and I think I'm getting over this loss, and then, out of nowhere, there are worse days when it's like I'm starting to grieve all over again from the start. We just have to do the best we can, and do what seems right for us. Don't let anyone try to pressure you -

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