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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
« on: November 27, 2011, 09:49:54 PM »
Today is my late husband Steve birthday.   I wished him a happy birthday in heaven...hope he heard me...

Born 11/27/
Died 10/08/11


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: November 21, 2011, 11:55:05 PM »
Hello.  My name is Jacquie.  I lost my husband of 30 years on October 8, 2011.  He went into the hospital on Sept. 19th and never left.  We found out he had pancreatic cancer and an aorta anurism.  He did pass from the cancer.  I was with him when he passed.  I feel grief but I also feel relief.  Sometimes I feel guilty for not griefing.  Am I griefing, I don't know.  I cried at the hospital when he passed and have had some sad moments, but I don't feel a dark deep grief.  I loved him and he loved me and we did have a talk before he passed.  After 20 days in the hospital and watching him give up I suppose is why I feel more relieved then grief.  He is no longer in pain and God let us both go home. 

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