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Crisis, Grief, and Healing => Sibling Loss => Topic started by: Livingwithalotofpain on February 06, 2016, 03:27:30 PM

Title: My sister was murdered
Post by: Livingwithalotofpain on February 06, 2016, 03:27:30 PM
My sister was murdered when she was 6 months old on August 21,1977. By her father he was sentenced to life but for good behavior he was out in 3 years to start a new life. My sister never had a chance to live her life because he took that from her my mom covered for him. And tried blaming my 2 year old sister she would be 39 this year and I am very angry at the people who took her life can anyone help me with this so I am not mad or hateful towards them anymore.
Title: Re: My sister was murdered
Post by: Terry on February 09, 2016, 03:30:40 PM
I'm sorry for your loss and your pain. Keep sharing your story. It helps to get your feelings out and everytime we tell our story it seems to lighten our hearts.

Regarding your anger and the hateful feelings towards those reponsible for your sister's death; ask yourself if this anger is healthy for you because a lot of the time it is not. It can end up causing diseases/illnesses and also emotional problems, leaving us unable to form healthy relationships. It's all up to you how you want to honor your sister, though her life was very short here on earth....she lived.

Sending hugs,
Terry