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Crisis, Grief, and Healing => Spouse, Partner Loss => Topic started by: MyLou on December 14, 2013, 07:25:14 AM

Title: Oh I miss My Lou
Post by: MyLou on December 14, 2013, 07:25:14 AM
Just having one of those bad days, we all know how it goes, ugh

Tears flooding my face

I miss Lou so much.  He used to sing this song to me.  

My Lou/Angel I love you with all my heart/soul and miss you sooooooooooooo


The Jeff Healey Band - Angel Eyes (Music Video) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kag0TsZzxpw#)
Title: Re: Oh I miss My Lou
Post by: Zylen on December 14, 2013, 11:19:07 AM
Huge hug to you ((((((Lisa))))))

Those days really really suck.

I've been told that it's at times like those when we miss them like that is because they are very close at that point and we somehow sense them and remember what it feels like to be with them. I know how hard it is, but try to talk with him at those times, and try to be silent after and listen and feel.

Keep on going, Lisa. Those days do pass.

(((((((((Lisa))))))))) <3

Title: Re: Oh I miss My Lou
Post by: RobbieR on December 14, 2013, 03:27:09 PM
Lisa
I hope your day has gotten much better. I have had a lousy 2 or 3 days myself. I can't get Anne out of my mind. I keep thinking of her precious heart and the silly fun things we did for each other. As my son likes to say, we were living the dream. I think it's so good we have the memories. Even though it hurts, it shows how much love is still there. As you said, we have them with us.

(((((Lisa)))))

Robbie.
Title: Re: Oh I miss My Lou
Post by: Diane5636 on December 14, 2013, 04:31:32 PM
A big hug to you, Lisa.  I have those days, and even when I don't have those days, the memories of the circumstances surrounding Scott's death just occupy my mind like a song on repeat.  I send you wishes for healthy distractions, good memories and signs of care from lots of others.  ((((Lisa))))
  - from Diane
Title: Re: Oh I miss My Lou
Post by: DaveB on December 14, 2013, 08:45:21 PM
A big 'ol hug, Lisa. Hang in there. Been having a tough few days myself, sad thoughts, bad dreams...it's exhausting. Looking forward to having this pass, I'm sure it will.
Title: Re: Oh I miss My Lou
Post by: MyLou on December 15, 2013, 03:01:15 AM
All,

Thank you for always being there for me.

((((( Kevin ))))) you are right those days suck, my heart breaks for you too, I know he's close... I always talk to Lou and just sit thinking  :engel2:

((((( Robbie ))))) my day got a little better ty ..... I know what you mean your ever thought is Anne .. I too was like that in the beginning of this hard journey... my heart breaks for you too ... we have to hold onto to our memories ..... I know they are always with us  :engel2:

(((((( Diane ))))) my heart breaks for you too, thank you for the wishes and I wish the same for you :engel2:.  I know what you mean about like a song repeating.

((((( Dave ))))) my heart breaks for you too. I am sorry for your bad days too. It will pass they have too.   :engel2:

Thank you for being there for me.  I will always be here for everyone too. I know our spouses don't want us to be sad. How can we not ? We will do the best we can until we meet them again.


Sending everyone, love, peace, hope, light and faith

Always,

Lisa
 
Title: Re: Oh I miss My Lou
Post by: Terry on December 16, 2013, 10:48:09 AM

((((((((Lisa)))))))) :love9:
Title: Re: Oh I miss My Lou
Post by: jbryant on December 16, 2013, 05:21:42 PM
(((((((((Lisa))))))))))  :love9: