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Crisis, Grief, and Healing => Spouse, Partner Loss => Topic started by: Terry on August 30, 2013, 05:59:17 AM

Title: Maureen's Birthday (((Arthur)))
Post by: Terry on August 30, 2013, 05:59:17 AM

Happy Heavenly Birthday, Maureen!

(((((((Arthur)))))))

Holding you close today on Maureen's heavenly birthday. Wishing you a day filled with beautiful memories of your love. :love9:

Hugs & Love,
Terry

Title: Re: Maureen's Birthday (((Arthur)))
Post by: Zylen on August 30, 2013, 06:03:19 AM

(((((((((Arthur)))))))))

Title: Re: Maureen's Birthday (((Arthur)))
Post by: MyLou on August 30, 2013, 07:41:38 AM

(((((( ARTHUR ))))))

Happy Heavenly Birthday to your precious Maureen .....   

Hoping your heart is filled with beautiful and precious memories of your Angel Maureen  :engel2:


Sending you love, light , peace and faith

Always,

Lisa  

Title: Re: Maureen's Birthday (((Arthur)))
Post by: arthur on September 01, 2013, 09:07:00 PM

Thanks so much Terry, Zylen, Lisa!!
This year has been very difficult on 0830.  It seems like my whole life, not just my grief for Maureen
, has become one mixed up hopeless mess of pain.   I do not see a way out of it.
I went to her grave the last few days..someone placed flowers on her grave besides myself, which was a nice change.

(((Terry))),(((Zylen))), (((Lisa)))
arthur

Title: Re: Maureen's Birthday (((Arthur)))
Post by: Zylen on September 02, 2013, 05:18:00 AM

((((((((Arthur)))))))))

Those anniversary dates are so very hard, especially alone.

And even harder when certain truths are realized, and those moments of clarity set in.

No doubt about it that it's just absolute misery, but as BGRx333 says so well in his post, at least it's us and not them going through this.

One day at a time, my friend, and we can do this.

(((((((((Arthur)))))))))))

Title: Re: Maureen's Birthday (((Arthur)))
Post by: Terry on September 04, 2013, 11:02:07 AM

Quote from: arthur on September 01, 2013, 09:07:00 PM

This year has been very difficult on 0830.  It seems like my whole life, not just my grief for Maureen
, has become one mixed up hopeless mess of pain.   I do not see a way out of it.
I went to her grave the last few days..someone placed flowers on her grave besides myself, which was a nice change.

((((((((Arthur))))))))

Sometimes it does feel like we're not moving fast enough or worse, at all. But, you are. Remember that you've had a devastating set back. Another loss. And, that loss brings us right back to the beginning with all of the pain and confusion.

Be good to yourself. Kind to yourself and more than anything, patient. And, trust that you won't always feel this way. Know that we're here for you and you're loved and cared for, Arthur.

How nice that someone remembered your precious Maureen and left flowers. I know that brought a smile to your heart.

Hold on to hope. :love9:

Love & understanding,
Terry

Title: Re: Maureen's Birthday (((Arthur)))
Post by: arthur on September 06, 2013, 08:51:30 PM

Thanks Zylen, Terry. Things still seem hopeless and empty.  Yes Zylen the only good things about this are that
Maureen doesn't have to suffer her disability anymore and that she doesn't have to grieve over my death.  
You are right Terry,the loss of my gf brings all the grief back..it seems like an endless stream of pain sometimes.
I am trying to my breakup behind me..in retrospect she really didn't give me any choice.  I don't regret it hardly at all.
Thanks for all the support and love!
arthur

Title: Re: Maureen's Birthday (((Arthur)))
Post by: browneyedgirl on September 08, 2013, 10:21:16 AM

((((((Arthur)))))))))  :engel2:

Title: Re: Maureen's Birthday (((Arthur)))
Post by: jbryant on September 17, 2013, 06:47:23 PM

(((((((((((((((Arthur))))))))))))))) :engel2: may you have peace