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Crisis, Grief, and Healing => Spouse, Partner Loss => Topic started by: browneyedgirl on June 21, 2011, 08:47:52 AM

Title: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on June 21, 2011, 08:47:52 AM
Hi Everyone ~

As of July 1st, I will be posting your loved ones Angel Dates and Birthdays. If for some reason, you would rather not have their dates posted, simply message me with a "No" and I will make note of that. Your comfort is our main concern!

Please feel free to post your loved ones birthday and angel date here and/or on the calendar. If for some reason, you do not see your loved ones dates posted, all you need to do is message me or leave a message on this thread and I will be happy to add their dates.

If you would like me to post it on the calendar for you, I will be happy to do that, also.

Sending love and light to all.

Love,
Your Webhealing Family


Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries
Post by: DaveB on June 21, 2011, 07:37:35 PM
Well, I just made it past my wife's birthday (May 26, she would have been 53), our 27th wedding anniversary on June 16, and now I have to contend with with what would have been the 10th anniversary of her double-lung transplant on June 28th...something I thought for sure we would be celebrating together.
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries
Post by: Terry on June 21, 2011, 09:43:45 PM

Dave, thinking of you and holding you close to my heart knowing how difficult these dates are.

((((((((((((((((Dave))))))))))))))

My Love,
Terry
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: MyLou on October 23, 2011, 05:22:31 AM
Hi Pam,

I would like to give you dates. 

Lou Birthday : 4/07/58

Angel Date : 11/22/10


Always , Lisa
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on October 24, 2011, 02:18:10 PM
Thank you, Lisa, I will make sure they are noted.

(((Lisa)))   
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: DebbieThompson on November 16, 2011, 05:32:44 PM
Waynes DOB: 10/9/1959
Angel    DOD: 10/30/2011
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on November 18, 2011, 04:27:06 PM
Waynes DOB: 10/9/1959
Angel    DOD: 10/30/2011

Thank you Debbie - I will make sure they get added to the calendar.
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: johnkmurray on November 18, 2011, 04:29:09 PM
Did I not submit Kit's info?
Born: Jan 21
Died: April 7
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on November 22, 2011, 02:18:50 PM
Did I not submit Kit's info?
Born: Jan 21
Died: April 7

We will make sure it's on the calendar. :)
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Jacquie on November 27, 2011, 09:49:54 PM
Today is my late husband Steve birthday.   I wished him a happy birthday in heaven...hope he heard me...

Born 11/27/
Died 10/08/11

Jacquie
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Terry on November 28, 2011, 02:35:06 PM
Today is my late husband Steve birthday.   I wished him a happy birthday in heaven...hope he heard me...

Born 11/27/
Died 10/08/11

Jacquie

Jacquie,

Happy Heavenly Birthday to your precious Steve. I know he heard you. I believe they all do.

Sending hugs and understanding,
Love,
Terry
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: sonya on December 09, 2011, 10:50:52 AM
Tone's birthday is New Years Eve 31/12/1972

Angel Date 23 / 8 /2011
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on December 09, 2011, 11:33:32 AM
Tone's birthday is New Years Eve 31/12/1972

Angel Date 23 / 8 /2011

Thanks, Sonya, we will make sure it's added.
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: an on December 09, 2011, 09:20:31 PM
Marc's birthday was Feb 22 and he died on Sept 11. Could you please add him too

Thanks
An
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on December 12, 2011, 08:37:06 AM
Marc's birthday was Feb 22 and he died on Sept 11. Could you please add him too

Thanks
An

Yes, An, I will make sure they get added.

Thank you. Hugs.
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: cewilso on December 13, 2011, 08:07:45 PM
Thanks browneyedgirl for your support to all of us.   Wayne's angel date is tomorrow 12/14/2010.  Would you be so kind to add him to the calendar. 
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on December 14, 2011, 09:22:08 AM
Thanks browneyedgirl for your support to all of us.   Wayne's angel date is tomorrow 12/14/2010.  Would you be so kind to add him to the calendar. 

No problem.....lots of love, thinking of you.
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: angie on December 27, 2011, 06:20:30 PM
Could you  please add Davie Hunter's dates to the calender
D.O.B 21 June 1964
D.O.D 12 Nov 2011

Thankyou xx love Angie
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: sunshineme1 on February 09, 2012, 08:25:05 AM
guy bryant  DOB 1/6/42
   
                 DOD 12/30/08

anniversary  Feb 14th
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on February 10, 2012, 11:37:59 AM
Could you  please add Davie Hunter's dates to the calender
D.O.B 21 June 1964
D.O.D 12 Nov 2011

Thankyou xx love Angie

Added, Angie. 
love,
pam
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on February 10, 2012, 11:38:22 AM
guy bryant  DOB 1/6/42
   
                 DOD 12/30/08

anniversary  Feb 14th

Added.

Lots of love.
Pam
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: roseygirl61 on February 11, 2012, 05:19:25 PM
Hi Pam,
Would you please add dates for me?
Bill
DOB 8/22
Angel date 5/23

Thanks
Rose
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on February 16, 2012, 10:06:35 AM
Hi Pam,
Would you please add dates for me?
Bill
DOB 8/22
Angel date 5/23

Thanks
Rose

Added. =)  Sorry it took so long.
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: roseygirl61 on February 16, 2012, 05:12:19 PM
Thanks Pam!
And thank you for all the support you give us!
Rose
xoxo
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: moonslammin on February 18, 2012, 08:26:47 PM
Id like to give you my husband Dan's dates,

Dan Angel date,,, February 3, 2012
       Birthdate....  February 10, 1960
Anniversary date.....April 22, 1978


also have child dates,,  Tara  birthdate Sept 4, 1974
                                          Angel date Febrary 17. 1978

yes its been a rough 2 weeks for me.  But by reading things posted helped me alot. Thanks

Donna
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on February 20, 2012, 01:38:14 PM
Id like to give you my husband Dan's dates,

Dan Angel date,,, February 3, 2012
       Birthdate....  February 10, 1960
Anniversary date.....April 22, 1978


also have child dates,,  Tara  birthdate Sept 4, 1974
                                          Angel date Febrary 17. 1978

yes its been a rough 2 weeks for me.  But by reading things posted helped me alot. Thanks

Donna


Added, Donna.....lots of love.
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: jasonkl on February 20, 2012, 05:57:36 PM
Pam
I dont think I ever gave you Jen's dates

brithday 05/08/1976
anniversary 04/03/1999
Angel date 08/19/2011

Jason
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on February 21, 2012, 09:58:04 AM
Pam
I dont think I ever gave you Jen's dates

brithday 05/08/1976
anniversary 04/03/1999
Angel date 08/19/2011

Jason

Added, Jason.  =)
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: jasonkl on February 21, 2012, 10:21:37 PM
Thank you ((((((((((((Pam)))))))))
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: stampingwidow on April 29, 2012, 08:27:56 PM
Robert Taft  DOB:5-1-41
DOD: 12-10-11

Thank you
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on April 30, 2012, 09:52:57 AM
Robert Taft  DOB:5-1-41
DOD: 12-10-11

Thank you

Added. 

(((stampingwidow)))
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: stampingwidow on April 30, 2012, 06:05:48 PM
Thank you.
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Zylen on May 03, 2012, 06:54:56 PM
Mary's  Bday May 14,  1951
Angel date June 15, 2011
Anniversary Sept. 12, 1995
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on May 04, 2012, 09:07:24 AM
Mary's  Bday May 14,  1951
Angel date June 15, 2011
Anniversary Sept. 12, 1995

Added.

(((Kevin)))
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Jean D on June 06, 2012, 03:00:35 PM
Browneyedgirl, Please add my husband's dates to your list

Beni
Birthday December 1, 1950
Angel date, December 8, 2011
Wedding anniversary March 18, 1972

Thank you so much
Jean
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on June 06, 2012, 03:21:45 PM
Browneyedgirl, Please add my husband's dates to your list

Beni
Birthday December 1, 1950
Angel date, December 8, 2011
Wedding anniversary March 18, 1972

Thank you so much
Jean


(((Jean)))

Added.
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: sonya on June 22, 2012, 03:10:01 PM
Hi our wedding anniversary is 14th August x
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on June 27, 2012, 11:03:36 AM
Hi our wedding anniversary is 14th August x

Son- Added.

(((Son)))
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: mshaynes on June 29, 2012, 08:31:21 AM
Please add:

Eden birthday 8/27/1956, angel day 1/26/2012

Glad to find this board. I think I can gain some comfort from it. I now know I'm not alone. Gosh, this hurts!
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on June 29, 2012, 08:46:01 AM
Please add:

Eden birthday 8/27/1956, angel day 1/26/2012

Glad to find this board. I think I can gain some comfort from it. I now know I'm not alone. Gosh, this hurts!


Added. 

Welcome.

((((mshaynes))))
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: mshaynes on July 09, 2012, 08:14:00 PM
I gave you Eden's birthday and angel day before. Forgot to list our anniversary: 6/2/1990. Thanks. This is a nice remembrance for us and our loved ones.
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on July 11, 2012, 01:33:27 PM
I gave you Eden's birthday and angel day before. Forgot to list our anniversary: 6/2/1990. Thanks. This is a nice remembrance for us and our loved ones.

Added

((((Mark))))
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: jbryant on October 18, 2012, 08:04:17 PM
Can you please add Doyle's dob 6-20-60 dod 8-5-2012 our anniversery would have been nov. 18 35 yrs many thanks john
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on October 23, 2012, 09:22:25 AM
Can you please add Doyle's dob 6-20-60 dod 8-5-2012 our anniversery would have been nov. 18 35 yrs many thanks john

Added ((((John)))))  I am so sorry it took me so long.  I had seen this from my phone, and I couldn't post to the calendar from it. 

(((((John)))))
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: jbryant on October 25, 2012, 06:48:49 PM
many thanks :love9:
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: chrisearls on December 16, 2012, 07:14:48 PM
I've never heard of Angel date. Love IT! Would you mind please adding my beautiful wife's dates.
Brandi Earls
Born May 11, 1973
Became my Angel December 13,2012

Thank you,
Chris
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on December 17, 2012, 12:48:45 PM
I've never heard of Angel date. Love IT! Would you mind please adding my beautiful wife's dates.
Brandi Earls
Born May 11, 1973
Became my Angel December 13,2012

Thank you,
Chris

Added,  :LA:
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: chrisearls on December 17, 2012, 02:52:21 PM
Thank you :)
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: arthur on April 01, 2013, 10:29:17 PM
Hi Pam..
I guess in all the upheaval of my life the last 2 years I never asked you to post
Maureen's Birthday and Angel date..
Born 08/30/1954
Died 04/14/2011

We were married on 04/17/1998.
Thanks, Arthur
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: browneyedgirl on April 03, 2013, 09:15:43 AM
Hi Pam..
I guess in all the upheaval of my life the last 2 years I never asked you to post
Maureen's Birthday and Angel date..
Born 08/30/1954
Died 04/14/2011

We were married on 04/17/1998.
Thanks, Arthur

Added.  Thinking of you with dates coming up.
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Zylen on June 01, 2013, 08:16:36 PM
Could you please add Mary's angel date...it's June 15th, 2011

Thank you :)
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Terry on June 01, 2013, 08:33:01 PM
I just posted Mary's angel date on our calendar and she will be honored on the 15th. The days and even weeks leading up to their dates can be so difficult. You have my heart, Kevin. :love9:

Love ya,
Terry
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: funlearningmother on December 31, 2014, 11:57:17 PM
Riki's angel date is May 15 2012 and his birthday was august 12 1962
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Janka on January 14, 2015, 05:06:50 PM
Riki's angel date is May 15 2012 and his birthday was august 12 1962

Dear Shelby!

My beloved Jan was born in May too,as well as me.His birthday is close to angel date of your beloved man,exactly in the 16th of May,so IŽll be thinking of you then too.

Hugs from Janka
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: funlearningmother on January 17, 2015, 11:43:04 PM
Thank you Janka
My grandmother and a friend of Riki's and mine died in that month as well so it can be a rough month for me.
Hugs and love,
Shelby

Riki's angel date is May 15 2012 and his birthday was august 12 1962

Dear Shelby!

My beloved Jan was born in May too,as well as me.His birthday is close to angel date of your beloved man,exactly in the 16th of May,so IŽll be thinking of you then too.

Hugs from Janka

Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Jean1955 on May 09, 2015, 05:07:30 PM
Hi,

My Husbands' name is Kim H. DOB:05-09-55  Angel Date:02-20-15

Thanks,

Jean1955


Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Terry on May 09, 2015, 06:33:17 PM
(((((Jean)))))

Wishing your precious husband Kim a Happy Heavenly Birthday.

Sending you love and hugs,
Terry
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: GoodOlDan on August 03, 2015, 06:25:37 PM
My wife Livia died on her birthday this year of brain cancer...

Birthday:  4/23
Date of death: 4/23/2015

Please put these dates on the calendar...

Thanks,
Dan
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Terry on August 27, 2015, 09:43:21 AM
Hi Dan,

I'm sorry to learn of the death of your wife, Livia.

As for her dates, it is too soon to post them as the 2016 calendar is not active at this time. You will be able to post her dates when 2016 arrives. Just click on POST EVENT at the bottom of the calendar and you can add her dates. If you need help, just let me know. I'd be happy to post them for you when the time comes.
My grandmother's birthday is also on April 23rd. So sad that Livia's angel date and birthday are the same.

Introduce yourself and share Livia's story on Spouse Loss. They are all very supportive over there.

Hugs,
Terry
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: PattiA on October 24, 2015, 09:02:41 PM
Would you please add my husbands dates?  His name is Gary and he was born December 4, 1949 and his angel date is July 28, 2015.  Thank you so much
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Terry on October 30, 2015, 02:27:25 PM
Hi Patti - Welcome to Webhealing.

I'm sorry to read of the recent death of your husband, Gary. Feel free to post on the Spouse Loss board for support. They are a great bunch over there....very supportive.

Hugs,
Terry
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: skipwallace555 on August 10, 2016, 08:07:24 AM
I lost My Kathleen on 3/20/16 after a 6 year battle we both waged with lung cancer. I have started my one year journey through important dates with her birthday on 7/22.  The second hurdle is 8/15; our 24th wedding anniversary.  She was the love of my life and I miss her terribly.  I am seeing a grief counselor for the second time today. I am anticipating Thanksgiving and Christmas to be just as sad.  God help get through this
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Terry on August 18, 2016, 10:10:52 AM
Hi Skip,

I'm so sorry to read of the recent death of your precious wife, Kathleen. These dates are very difficult, especially the firsts. The anticipation of them which could affect us weeks even months before seem to be just as heartbreaking. Your wedding anniversary that just passed had to be especially difficult.

We get through the holidays one at a time and do the best we can. There are a lot of posts on the holidays with tips and other ways to help cope that you may find helpful. Feel free to read them at your leisure.

Always remember that this is your grief, your feelings that have to be considered. Try not to be swayed by others opinions on how to grieve or even how long. Family and friends may need to be offered guidelines as you travel this journey of grief. "The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no recipe for living (grieving) that suits all cases." -CG Jung

Know that we're here for you.
:love9:

Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: arthur on August 30, 2016, 11:07:02 PM
Hello.. It's been so long since I have been on this site.  I am here because yesterday 083016 was Maureens's 5th b day since she died on 041416.  As with all other of her B days since she passed away, the day was uneventful and just like any other day for me.. Another day without Maureen.   Even though yesterday was her b day Inhave long realized that Many days seem like her b day because she is no longer alive and I can't help but miss her so very much on those days.  A years, 5 years of b days without her in them. Thanks for letting me post I have no one in my whole life now that really understands.what losing your spouse means.  I have no other outlet in this world but this forum to tell what she meant to me.  Take care. I don't know if I'll ever post again here but I do know I'll nev3r stop loving and missin your dear Maureen no matter what happens.
Take care, Arthur
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Terry on September 01, 2016, 01:45:08 PM
Hi Arthur,

It was so nice to see your post. I've missed you.

I posted Maureen's Birthday last year but never heard back from you and I thought you left us. Good to know that you're still reading.
There are many new members that could benefit from your sharing as they, too feel very alone.

You and your precious Maureen are always in my heart. :love9:

Love,
Terry
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: arthur on September 19, 2016, 08:30:06 PM
Hi Terry..
Thank you so much for your post and I really appreciate the kind thoughts and prayers. I missed you too and I can never forget your and other kindness here that have helped me to heal from losing Maureen.  Not a day goes by when she isn't in my thoughts.  Recently I have felt guilty about not helping one of Maureen's relatives who has suffered severe dementia in her old age. I know if Maureen were alive she would want me to visit and help, but this woman, Maureen's Aunt, lives in a distant city that would require a lot of planning for me to get there, and I honestly don't know if I could retain my composure if her aunt would even remember who I am. Her aunt is in good hands and is being cared for in her illness and old age, and I still suffer from frequent migraines while trying to hold down a full time job.  So I am struggling about what to do here as a visit has become problematic.
    Yes I'll post again here Terry I hope that what I have gone through can maybe help someone who is grieving for their lost spouse. Thanks for inviting me back. Take care Terry I hope you are doing well too!
arthur
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Terry on September 27, 2016, 12:33:04 PM
((((((Arthur))))))

You are always welcome here, my friend and never need an invitation. I fondly refer to Webhealing as my online home. I know that others feel the same way. No matter how much time has passed we can always stop by, share our thoughts and count on someone reading or responding.

Always in my heart,
Terry
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Raven2017 on April 29, 2017, 06:00:07 AM
Jim's birthday is June 20, 1957
Jim's angel date is April 13, 2017
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Terry on May 01, 2017, 06:19:16 AM
We will remember Jim on his special dates. They are posted on our calendar.

(((((Raven)))))
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: Flowermama on August 16, 2018, 06:25:37 AM
Mike- Birthday 6/24/60
         Angel Day 1/27/18
Title: Re: Birthdays/Angel Dates/Anniversaries - NEW!
Post by: BLAP on August 28, 2018, 10:00:04 AM
Hi Everyone ~

As of July 1st, I will be posting your loved ones Angel Dates and Birthdays. If for some reason, you would rather not have their dates posted, simply message me with a "No" and I will make note of that. Your comfort is our main concern!

Please feel free to post your loved ones birthday and angel date here and/or on the calendar. If for some reason, you do not see your loved ones dates posted, all you need to do is message me or leave a message on this thread and I will be happy to add their dates.

If you would like me to post it on the calendar for you, I will be happy to do that, also.

Sending love and light to all.

Love,
Your Webhealing Family