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Crisis, Grief, and Healing => Sibling Loss => Topic started by: tillie35 on March 04, 2011, 05:44:09 AM

Title: Mark
Post by: tillie35 on March 04, 2011, 05:44:09 AM

Two years ago on March 5th was the last time I saw my brother Mark alive and he died on the 8th March 2009.  He has been in my thoughts for a couple weeks now almost constantly.  I feel very sad and I hope he is enjoying heaven.  I needed to put this in words maybe I will not be so sad.

Love Mary  

Title: Re: Mark
Post by: browneyedgirl on March 04, 2011, 08:48:49 AM

(((Mary)))

March is a tough month for me, too.  The last time I saw my brother alive.  It's the days leading up to his death that get to me more than the actual day. 

I am sure Mark and Tony (my brother) are enjoying Heaven.....

Sending you love and hugs.

Title: Re: Mark
Post by: deebee on March 04, 2011, 11:20:05 AM

Ditto, me too.  The last time my brother was alive was March 5, 2010.  Killed on that day about 2:15 pm -- I've been thinking about him constantly this week, knowing that his angel date will be tomorrow.   I still have to get down in words what happened to him, finish it, but just have not been able to do it.   My sympathies and prayers are with you.  Love to all here at webhealing,  deebee

Title: Re: Mark
Post by: helene on March 04, 2011, 02:09:13 PM

Hi Mary,

I, in my own fumbing, bmbling way, relate to what you have shared with us.

I don't know about anniveraries of our loved one's deaths. Yes, on every February 2 I remember my father's death. I have run out of tears almost for my father. I loved him so but I am only human. Then..........my sister Lelsey died on July 14, 2010.

I just want you to know that my heart goes out to you Mary, as the anniveraries of both the last time you saw your brother and when he died, looms so very close now as we enter into month of March.

You and your brother Mark were close. You loved each other dearly. Hang onto that!!! LOVE conquors all ..... and it's true!  I know last statement of mine may seem trite...but it's not. At leat.... not coming from me.

Much love and hugs to you Mary,

Helene.

Title: Re: Mark
Post by: missingmyarm on March 04, 2011, 06:54:59 PM

Mary,
So many of us seem to share the month of March...the last time I saw Rich was the morning of March 8th 2010.  His birthday was the 19th and then he passed away on the 30th.  I keep remembering the last time we talked - it was Saturday and he died on Tuesday.  We talked for a long time - I am so grateful for that - it was almost like he knew.  As these days approach I feel more and more anxious and so very sad.  I am functioning, but I am missing him so much.

Thanks to all who post here, it is so helpful to talk to people who understand what I'm going through.