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Crisis, Grief, and Healing => Child Loss => Topic started by: starynyte on December 04, 2006, 08:38:08 AM

Title: He would be 24...
Post by: starynyte on December 04, 2006, 08:38:08 AM
Thinking of what he would be like at 24 breaks my heart... being murdered at 19, he never really had a chance to truly become a man. I miss him soooooooo much. :(
Title: Re: He would be 24...
Post by: Tims mom phyllis on December 04, 2006, 09:37:30 AM
I lost Tim at 16 and wonder what he would be like at 22 also.
Would I have a grandbaby now I wonder.
So sorrie your hurting
sending you a big cyber hug
Title: Re: He would be 24...
Post by: Jeanneb on December 04, 2006, 03:36:14 PM
Cheri,

Know what you mean.  Philip was 17 when he left and would now be 21.  I can't even imagine how much more he'd have grown.  Would he have facial hair?  Didn't have to shave but maybe once a month at 17 unlike his older brother who had been shaving since 7th grade.  How would he enjoy little Layla?  Even though I think she sees him.  She just stares at the ceiling fan and will smile and trying to laugh.  I've been told little ones can see their angels.  So, I hold on to that and talk to Layla about her Uncle Philip.

Love and hugs,
Jeanne