Hi Marianne,
I don't know if that is considered post-traumatic stress or just a trigger-"just a trigger" sorry to make it sound simple, it isn't. It has been nearly 4 years since Laura was killed, and there are still many things that trigger it for me...and sometimes what will trigger it one day, won't another...crazy...but so is losing a child to death. I know that my son was diagnosed with PTSD, and he did only two things-cried or slept. He was unable to work, barely ate...this lasted for nearly 3 months. He had been driving the car when they were hit and his sister was killed, he went to Shock Trauma. After he recovered physically, he seemed to be doing fairly well, although it took a couple of weeks before he would sleep alone, he wanted me to be in the room with him, and he was petrified the first few times he drove again (the collision was not his fault). He was 24 at the time. Laura was killed June 7, 2003, and her 18th birthday was July 30th. On her birthday we went to the collsion site and placed a cross...the next day my son went to work, and I got a call a few hours later that he was in the emergency room with chest pain, he had been taken from work by ambulance. He was determined to be ok, and went back to work, only to be sent home again because he started crying at his desk and couldn't stop. This happened a couple of more times, and I took him to our family physician who diagnosed him with PTSD and survivor guilt. He was off work for 2 months on disability, his work was VERY understanding, and finally he was able to begin to try to live as normal a life as he could. But it was a very rough time. Anyway, that was my experience with PTSD.