Morning all,
This was my Grief Share message of the day today--thought it was a good one. This is a religious-based group, so I hope no one is offended by the religious part. I just thought the message was good.
Will try and post more later. Hope everyone has a decent 4th of July. I have no plans either except to go to the pool.
Jannie
Loneliness Trap: Clutter
Day 92
To have a new hobby or to embark on a new endeavor to serve others is good, but overcrowding your life with activities can distract you from the process of grieving. You need time to be quiet, to relax, to meditate, and to pray.
Dr. Jim Conway says, "I remember a woman coming to one of the groups who said, 'My husband has been gone for about a year, and I'm just not getting any better.' She listed off half a dozen activities that she'd started since her husband died, as if being more active would help her through the process.
"I said to her, 'You know, you've been running from grief, but you have not yet started to grieve.'"
Use wisdom in the choices you make during grief, choices about your time, commitments, activities, and behaviors. Grief must be faced and then journeyed through, and the wisdom and strength to persevere is found in the Lord.
"Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him" (James 1:2-5).
Father, please give me the wisdom to know when to be active and when to slow down, when to work and when to relax. Amen.