Hi Martin..I am so sorry for your loss of your wife Wendy. I lost my wife Maureen almost 2 years ago next month. Believe it or not it does get easier.
I know that seems a very pale consolation now that you are in one of the worst times of your life, but it will happen. The thing to think about now is to just live for the next day...and thats it!! Forget about the future..it is something that is beyond your control. Just think about making it to the next day as best you can. Yes there's going to be reminders...but if there is its something you have no control over. Just live for today and thats it until you can get through this hellish initial period of grief. Again I am so sorry about your wife Wendy. ((((Martin))))