I am so sorry that you have been going through so much. You are such a loving person being there for your Uncle in his last days and then tending to his funeral. And being there so strongly and lovingly for your mother. I am not surprised you also suffered from illness. You are no doubt exhausted these days. I just want you to know that I too will pray and am praying for you and your mother and your family. I know that many of my posts may seem that I am a very irreverent person, but actually I have a very spiritual side and believe strongly in prayer. Please take care of yourself. I know this is not easy to do during times like this in your life, and I'm hardly the 'ideal' person to give such advice, but, there it is.
My love and prayers for you and your mother and in memory of your dear sister Jolene and your dear Uncle,