I am back on the board here after a long time, and I am blown away by the generosity and insight of your posts to others. You are someone who clearly has a ton to offer the universe, both in skill and in your strength of character.
And if anyone could add to a family at her next job, I would be betting on you. You must do an outstanding job of choosing people to add to your life, because you have survived so much so well.
They can take your job, but they can't take you. You still are you, and you have a lot of important things to give.
My best to you. Please keep us posted on your job hunt. I am praying that your next job will offer an even better family.