Any one who has lost a sibling NEEDS to read SURVIVING THE DEATH OF A SIBING by T. J. Wray. It will give you strength and really make you realize that you are not alone. It gives suggestions of things to do to give yourself closure. It is written by someone who has lost a brother. There is not much sibling loss support out there and this book focuses on just that. It is a MUST-READ for anyone who has lost a sibling.