My husband killed himself one month ago today - or yesterday. We're not sure. A week or two after his death I checked out this book from the library and it really helped me put this tragedy into context and I think put me in the right frame of mind to start this horrible journey of grieving.
Includes lots of information about why we cannot take the blame for our loved one's suicide.
"Healing After the Suicide of a Loved One"
by Ann Smolin and John Guinan
Quick, easy read. I read it almost right through in a day or two.
I hope this can help some of you out there.