I made an introducation thread that's meant to be my place to talk about the whole thing, but I should probably make a short introduction here. I didn't see an introduction board, so I'm doing it here. It looks like this is the place.
I'm Doug. My brother, Steve, died in 1995 in an auto accident. My dad, Doug, Sr., died in 2000 in a very similar auto accident. Stevie was 22 and my dad was 57. Both were perfectly healthy, and neither one was at fault. Neither one was actually driving at the time.
It's taken me a long time, but I'm finally ready to deal with the grief. I have to, actually. Otherwise, I'm afraid it will mess up my life. I'm ready. Thanks for giving us this place. It's good to meet all of you.