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Has an excellent chapter about how a sibling feels that was eye opening for me. This book was helpful because it was not a you should do this or try this guide, which is what I thought reading the title. It was just people sharing their feelings and what happened to them and their family as a result of losing a child from different perspectives. It really showed how different everyone reacts or feels at the moment of loss, and years later. For that reason it was helpful to me.