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1  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Lou's Birthday ((((Lisa)))) on: April 09, 2014, 04:26:43 PM
(((( Dave )))) Thank you, Glad to see you

(((( Mouse )))) So true, Lou was about having fun ... I know he is always with me angel11

(((( Arthur )))) Thank you, Glad to see you .... You are right I will always love him and miss him

Sending, Peace, Hope , Light and Love


2  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Lou's Birthday ((((Lisa)))) on: April 07, 2014, 05:13:12 PM
(((( Terry )))) , Thank you so much  angel11 Yes, I hold onto our memories and they will always be sweet.  Today it's rainy here so tomorrow I am hoping I can let balloons to Heaven for his birthday. I miss him everyday tearyeyed

((( Mouse ))) , Thank you so much. It's hard my birthday was yesterday. Lou and I always celebrated our birthdays together. It was hard on my bday too. I got through and had fun with some special people in my life. Lou would've wanted me to have fun considering I didn't care about my bday much.


Sending peace, light , love and hope

3  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: (((((mousewife's Husband's Angel Date)))))) on: March 22, 2014, 03:32:11 AM
(((((( MOUSEWIFE ))))))

I know you are having a hard time lately but my wish is that your heart was filled with beautiful memories.

Sending, love, peace, light , hope


4  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Is anyone else having a bad day today? on: March 13, 2014, 02:53:39 AM
(((((( Mouse ))))))

I am almost at 3 1/2 yrs I still have my bad days.  It stinks !!!  I think we will have these days for the rest of our lives.  I'm not sure but we loss our soulmates and loved them with all our heart and soul.

I still just take my life one sec, min , hour , day at a time.  I still get bad anxiety some days.  I still have medicine for those attacks.  I never really had them until I loss My Lou.

I am just asking but do you think you want to try and date ?


5  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: YESTERDAY , FEB 8TH on: February 11, 2014, 03:18:21 AM
John , thank you my friend



6  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: just quite on: February 11, 2014, 03:17:40 AM
(((((( JOHN )))))))

I'm so happy you finished your classes. You are going to help so many people. I'm smiling and my heart is too.

I know you will always miss your Doyle he is always with you.  engel2

I/we are always here for you my friend, and love you too.


7  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / YESTERDAY , FEB 8TH on: February 09, 2014, 03:24:31 AM
Yesterday was Feb 8th... another hard date.  Lou proposed to me 6 yrs ago. He got down on one knee and said the most beautiful words/speech made me cry. I said YES YES YES so many times  love4 He put my ring on my finger.

We went to the poconos that weekend. It was so beautiful.

Yesterday I cried a lot ..... I miss him so much.

Also, missing my friend her birthday was yesterday. I met Mary Theresa on my journey she lived in a different state. Our friendship/love grew. I wanted to meet her a few times but she had gotten sick. Mary Theresa passed away Jan 17,2014.  I miss her so much too.

Yesterday, I let balloons up to Heaven for Lou and I for our anniversary. I let balloons up for Mary Theresa's bday.

These dates will always be etched in my heart/soul.

Life isn't fair sometimes , right ? ugh

8  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / The Broken Fork on: January 23, 2014, 04:55:56 PM
My friend sent this to me.

What a touching video!




9  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Hello 2014 on: January 23, 2014, 04:54:18 PM

I am sorry you are still in pain and wish you a speedy recovery.  I am happy for you that you are still with your wonderful lady.  You will never get over Maureen's death. We can't ever get over it.  We some how have to get through it and yes we are going to have our bad days still.  Please keep us updated on your recovery.

Robbie, You are so early in your grief. I remember everday was bad for me at 3 months. Don't be hard on yourself this is a hard journey. As for the displays of all the holidays it's hard. I use to try and avoid.  We are here for you.

Diane, It's hard facing a new year without our spouses but you can do life. A lot of times I thought I couldn't do it but I am still here.  We are here for you.

Sending peace, love , hugs,  icon_flower


10  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: just quite on: January 23, 2014, 04:40:41 PM

We all have this new life/journey the new us.  I am still figuring it out and you will too engel2

Good luck with you classes. Let us know how they go.  You are doing a great service to help others.

Sending , hugs, love, peace and hope


11  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / BEAM ME UP on: December 23, 2013, 02:34:06 AM
I know I had shared this song awhile back.

I am a PINK fan and this is such a beautiful song.

I wish Lou could Beam me up ....

P!nk - Beam Me Up (Official Lyric Video)
12  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Wishes for you all on: December 23, 2013, 02:26:27 AM
((((((( TERRY ))))))))

My wish for you is the same.  You are right hearing their name is a song in our hearts forever.

Terry I love you forever  love9



13  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: My best friend's daughter wrote me a song on: December 23, 2013, 02:21:37 AM
(((( Diane ))))

Wow , so beautiful thank you for sharing.

My wish for you is peace and comfort too  engel2


14  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: MY GIRLFRIEND'S MOM on: December 23, 2013, 02:14:12 AM
Robbie - Sometimes I wonder where I get the strength or I am not a strong person, but through my grief I guess I had no choice. I fell a lot didn't want to get back up etc, but with the help of others I did. You will find the strength you and  for others in time.

Terry - I needed and wanted to be there.  I love you too Terry


15  Crisis, Grief, and Healing / Spouse, Partner Loss / MY GIRLFRIEND'S MOM on: December 22, 2013, 03:14:20 AM
This week my girlfriend Kathy called me.  She told me that our girlfriend Debbie's mom passed away.  My heart just broke. I tried to call Debbie but with her being in shock all the feelings we have with death.  She never called back and I understood.

Yesterday was the funeral. Debbie has 2 sisters and 2 brother, actually she has 3 sisters but 1 had passed 8 yrs ago. Debbie was reading her mom the cards that were in the coffin.  My tears just flooded my face and I went next to her to hold onton her.  

Her whole family just hugged me so tightly and nieces and nephews that I don't see oftern.  They were walking up to me,

Her mom was/is a loving mom, person, forgave didn't hold onto to grudges.  She loved her children with all her heart.  The love that I seen yesterday made me smile too. You could not love her. She was so special and touched everyone's life, and of course mine too

Rest in Peace Ms C - I know you will always watch over your children, family and friends. Words can't begin to say how much you will be missed.

Love Always,

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