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Parent Loss / Re: my heart is torn to pieces
« on: October 17, 2017, 09:02:22 PM »
I am feeling so broken I lost my Mom in February Dad in July Our fur baby and my 16 year old grandson in September a week apart.


I'm so very sorry to read of the multiple deaths of your loved ones that you are living with at this time. It is heartbreaking.
Welcome to our Webhealing family.

As you are able to, please tell us something about your precious loved ones as they were all so special to you. Also if you would like to post their names and dates (Angel, Birth) I will post them on the calendar and they will always be remembered here on Webhealing.
If I can do anything for you, feel free to either message me or post it on the board.

We're here for you.

Hug & understanding,

Spouse, Partner Loss / Happy Birthday Mark!
« on: October 16, 2017, 03:36:03 PM »
Happy Birthday Mark! :occasion13:


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Gina's Birthday
« on: October 13, 2017, 06:44:09 PM »

Hey Michelle! How have you been? I'd love to know. Sure has been awhile. :icon_flower:


Parent Loss / Re: Sharon's Birthday (Lacemaker)
« on: October 10, 2017, 09:00:10 PM »
Thanks Terry,,, It has been a very rough day for me

My Mom died back in '77. I was in my twenties and she was my Mom, best friend, everything. I miss her every day and in every way.
My heart really goes out to you as it's only been a little over 6 months since your precious Mom died. These dates are so difficult. Please know I'm here for you.


Sibling Loss / Re: Hello All
« on: October 10, 2017, 01:56:30 PM »
Hi Scott,

So nice to see a post from you. How is everything?

Always think of you and your precious sister, :angel11: Jori. :angel11:


Parent Loss / Sharon's Birthday (Lacemaker)
« on: October 10, 2017, 01:49:31 PM »
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Sharon.


Remembering your precious Mom on her Heavenly Birthday.

Sending hugs,

Spouse, Partner Loss / Sharon's Wedding Anniversary (Lacemaker)
« on: October 09, 2017, 01:18:46 PM »

Remembering your Mom, Sharon today on her wedding anniversary. May your memories be warm and gentle.

Sending hugs,


I am not sure what else to do at this point as I have tried my best to encourage him into counseling. He is often at his mom's house and sleeps on her bed with the urn close by.

Is this normal for grief ? I have dealt with grief but didn't act this way.

Any advice on what I should do ?

Hi Natalie,

Welcome to our Webhealing family.

So sorry to learn of the death of your husband's precious Momma. (sending a hug his way) We all grieve differently when a loved one dies. There is no normal in grieving. With each of my three children my grief was different. My family said and did nothing but stand by me, which was everything at the time. A death changes us and that change can be seen over a very long period of time because time does not heal, it does, however change our perspective on life and death. That can be seen as a positive although it remains a life-changer. Our lives are never really the same when someone we love dies.

Although I can offer no advice as we are all so unique in how we grieve, I can share with you what has helped me through some of the darkest days of my life. And what I appreciated the most was family and friends standing by me, not pretending to understand what I was feeling and keeping their hearts open with love for me. That love included a much needed patience.

Eight months is still a very new and raw pain of shock and disbelief. My heart goes out to you both.

Let us know how you're doing, how your husband is doing and if we can help in any way. We're here for you and yours. :love9:

Sending love, hugs and understanding,

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: October 09, 2017, 09:27:57 AM »
Kathy/ All-
I'm sorry to hear of what happened and what you are going through.  I'm Tom, this is my first day signing up; I lost my wife suddenly almost 6 months ago.  I found this site referenced in a newspaper article yesterday and wanted to look into.  I feel like I'm doing OK for the most part but have  a lot bottled up inside I feel like I can't talk to anyone about anymore.  I cry about everyday even if not a sad cry.  My wife Amber was 31 and I thought we were gonna be together forever and I've never knew that kind of happiness or love before.  I'm trying to get by a day at a time.


I'm so sorry to read of the death of your precious wife, Amber. Welcome to our Webhealing family.

If you could post Amber's special dates: Angel, Birth, etc., I will post them on our calendar and she will always be remembered on her special day.

With love & understanding,

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: September 30, 2017, 08:52:38 AM »

I'm so sorry to read of the death of your precious husband.

Welcome to Webhealing. :love9:


Child Loss / ((((Garney, Jules, BonnyLu))))
« on: September 30, 2017, 08:50:10 AM »
(((((Garney))))) (((((Jules))))) (((((BonnyLu)))))

Thinking of you and hoping that you are all OK. Please let us know when you find the time.

If there is anything you need or that I can do for you, don't hesitate to message me.

With love & understanding, :love9:

Child Loss / Re: 11 years today
« on: September 12, 2017, 09:02:05 PM »


You are in my thoughts and my heart. I was gone all last week in preparation for Irma. I am safely in another state now because my home is not livable.

Would love to catch up soon.

Beautiful prayer and i would like to believe that with all my heart.

Love you friend, Terry

Child Loss / Re: I lost my Son Derek on 6/18/2017
« on: September 12, 2017, 08:56:03 PM »


I'm so very sorry that your precious son has died and I understand this pain is unbearable at times. We all do the 'what ifs' and the 'could of and should ofs' but it only complicates an already long road ahead to grieve in a healthy manner. I've been there. We've all been there. Guilt is a monster and an unforgiving one. It takes so much time to forgive ourselves for something we feel we 'should' have done.

I wish I could make your pain go away. But all I have is an ear and a shoulder and an understanding of how devastating it is to lose a any age.
I've buried all three of my children. It's like losing a limb but we always feel the pain of that absent limb.

Sending you hugs, love and my understanding.

Welcome to Webhealing.


Spouse, Partner Loss / Gina's Birthday
« on: September 12, 2017, 08:45:17 PM »
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Gina!


I hope your day was filled with wonderful memories of your precious Gina.

Hugs and love to you,

Parent Loss / Dad's Birthday (JustMark)
« on: August 31, 2017, 08:01:17 AM »
"Happy Heavenly Birthday, Dad!"


Remembering your Dad's Heavenly Birthday today and holding you close in thoughts as you deal with these two dates so close together....Bless your heart. :love9:


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