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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Death of My Spouse
« on: March 21, 2018, 02:33:21 PM »
((((((Caspercat))))))

Welcome to Webhealing.

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Where is my new life?
« on: March 15, 2018, 07:59:01 PM »
((((((((mousewife))))))) :love9: :love9:

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: 10 months
« on: March 12, 2018, 12:53:19 PM »
(((((Raven))))) :love9: (((((Mark)))))

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Child Loss / Re: Where is everyone from?
« on: March 12, 2018, 12:51:45 PM »
Hi Donna,

I'm so sorry to read of the loss of your precious daughter. As a Mom who has buried her children I certainly understand the awful pain you're in.

Welcome to Webhealing.

Love,
Terry

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Hi Mark
« on: February 13, 2018, 04:48:13 PM »

Hi Mark,

Sorry to read of your health problems and sure hope that soon you'll be on the mend. Also sorry to learn about your "Tunnie." I'm going through similar here with my baby. Clapton turned 21 in September and it's just one day at a time now. He needs help getting up as the arthritis is bad in his hip. He's on lots of good meds and seems pretty happy but slowing down each week.  He'll let me know when it's time - they all let me know. It's heartbreaking so I understand what you're going through.

Keep in touch and please let me know how Tunnie is doing. You have each other and that's a lot. :love9:

Sending big hugs to you and give a scratch behind the ears from me to Tunnie.

Love,
Terry

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Thinking of you all this holiday season
« on: January 19, 2018, 10:53:37 AM »
Huge hugs and love back (((((((Terry)))))))))  <3 I hope 2018 showers you with as much kindness and compassion as you show all of us here :)

(((((Kevin)))))

Thanks for the hugs & love. They are always welcomed! :icon_flower:

So nice to read a post from you. I hope you are well.

Love,
Terry

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Child Loss / Re: Is there an age limit for "child"
« on: January 19, 2018, 10:48:13 AM »

((((Doug))))

The holidays are a very difficult time atop the already heavy burden of grief that we carry from day to day. There's so much more pressure on men to 'not' show emotion, signalling that crying is a sign of weakness. It is not. Crying is healthy. The strongest men to have graced my life had no trouble crying when hurt/sad.

Thanks for checking in and letting us know how you're doing. Share of your precious Matt whenever you're comfortable doing so. Someone is always reading.

Love,
Terry



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Parent Loss / Re: Daily struggle missing both parents
« on: January 10, 2018, 05:54:39 PM »

((((UnknOwnAngel))))

I'm so sorry to read of the great loss of both of your precious parents. So young to lose two extraordinary people. And I believe that they 'can' see you and that they are with you, always.
With every major event in our lives there is always a sadness when we're unable to share it with those we love. My Mom died when she was 48 and I was young, too. I'll always miss her because I loved her so much. I don't think that missing ever goes away, it just becomes a part of us, a very manageable part of our lives. We bring with us all of the experiences from our loving parents into our future and they continue to mold us into adults.

'You' are proof that your parents existed and all of the love in your heart is because they loved you so much. You are their 'product.'
And when the time comes that you decide to have your own children, you will know in your heart that it's the right time. Take the time to heal your heart, as long as that might take.

Welcome to Webhealing.

Hugs,
Terry

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Main / Re: Thinking of you all this holiday season
« on: January 10, 2018, 04:06:59 PM »
((((Doug))))

Wishing you a new year of health, wealth and prosperity!

Hugs,
Terry

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Seven, what a nice surprise!!

Yes, it has been awhile and always good to hear from you! :icon_flower:

Thanks for dropping in.

Happy New Year, my friend.

Hugs,
Terry

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Child Loss / Re: Is there an age limit for "child"
« on: December 28, 2017, 04:29:33 PM »
((((Mugless))))

Matt sure was a special guy and in so many amazing ways. I know you must be proud and your heart overflowing with love for your precious boy. Thanks so much for sharing.

The holidays are a difficult time of the year. Writing, as in poetry or in a journal is very therapeutic.

I hope your daughter finds her way back to you.

Hugs,
Terry




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Parent Loss / Re: Thinking of you all this holiday season
« on: December 27, 2017, 09:59:17 PM »

Sure do understand how stressful it is to go through those motions and to wear that mask. It's exhausting.

I'm so sorry that you felt you didn't belong. There's so much pain and so much blame when a loved one dies and it comes from all directions.

Thanks for sharing.

Sending you big hugs (((((((Lacemaker)))))))
Love,
Terry

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Main / Thinking of you all this holiday season
« on: December 23, 2017, 03:03:12 PM »

Wishing you all peace and love and wonderful memories of your loved ones this holiday season. And, please stop by when you find the time and share your holiday plans or if you are not celebrating the holidays, I would like to hear from you, too.

Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy Hanukkah.

May your memories be gentle and may they bring a smile to your heart.

Love & hugs, :love9: :love9:
Terry

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Sibling Loss / Thinking of you all this holiday season
« on: December 23, 2017, 03:02:35 PM »

Wishing you all peace and love and wonderful memories of your loved ones this holiday season. And, please stop by when you find the time and share your holiday plans or if you are not celebrating the holidays, I would like to hear from you, too.

Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy Hanukkah.

May your memories be gentle and may they bring a smile to your heart.

Love & hugs, :love9: :love9:
Terry

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Suicide Loss / Thinking of you all this holiday season
« on: December 23, 2017, 03:01:58 PM »
Wishing you all peace and love and wonderful memories of your loved ones this holiday season. And, please stop by when you find the time and share your holiday plans or if you are not celebrating the holidays, I would like to hear from you, too.

Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy Hanukkah.

May your memories be gentle and may they bring a smile to your heart.

Love & hugs, :love9: :love9:
Terry

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