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Main / Re: Remembering "Our Kevin" on His Angel Date
« on: September 12, 2011, 10:48:56 AM »
Kevin and I used to talk a lot in Chat, it is hard to believe so much time has passed.

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Main / Re: 9 yrs ago today
« on: August 16, 2011, 10:57:20 AM »
The years and tears do help to  heal, I am thinking of you during this time.  You and this site have been a source of strength for me!

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Main / I think about this forum all the time!
« on: July 28, 2011, 08:21:27 AM »
I think about the wonderful people I met here after my Mother passed away, I could not have gotten through the first year without you all.  Almost three years have passed, well in September, and I am stronger, traveling a lot for work, getting home when I can.  Thinking........just retire.  I am afraid of the lonliness of old age, LOL.  Wishing you all much love and peace of mind!   Randy

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Main / Re: My friend's Mother
« on: January 18, 2011, 08:49:22 AM »
Browneyed
Sorry, I have not been on the forum the past couple of weeks, the new year has been challenging.  I am deeply sorry for the loss of your friends mother.  I have not attending any funerals since my Mother's, not sure how I could handle that so I understand  your feelings.  You are such a good, sweet, and loving person, it hurts me to think of you enduring anymore pain. Take care of yourself. You are in my prayers.

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Main / Re: As the Holidays Approach
« on: November 30, 2010, 05:24:25 PM »
Johnk, take it one day at a time. The holidays are rough, I still have  melt downs. Hang tough!

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Main / Re: As the Holidays Approach
« on: November 22, 2010, 01:49:18 PM »
ScottW
Angelicmom

I am so sorry for your pain.  It is all so unfair, we think, but I do believe that God has a greater plan for those who have left us.  May you find some joy and peace this holiday season!  Big hugs to both of you!

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Main / Re: As the Holidays Approach
« on: November 22, 2010, 01:46:26 PM »
Browneyed Girl - I know how much you miss your brother, I am sending you a special hug! 
Terry- Great to see you, I do check in, just do not post as often.

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Main / Re: As the Holidays Approach
« on: November 22, 2010, 01:43:45 PM »
johnk,
Bless you.  I will pray that you make it through this first holiday season.  I know how difficult it can be.  This will be my third year without my Mama, what gets me through is not dwelling on how much I miss her, but how much fun we used to have!  My siblings and I like to share stories of Christmas past. I will be checking the site throughout the day, if anyone wants or needs to chat.  Take care my friend. You are never alone, I wish none of us here needed each other but the fact is...............we do.
Randell`

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Main / As the Holidays Approach
« on: November 18, 2010, 12:57:20 PM »
This time of year is so difficult, the happy memories, the thoughts of what if..... or only if.......
My prayers go out to each of you.  I am sending warm wishes and hopes that you get through Thanksgiving okay.  Yes, I know it is still a week away, but my thoughts are already on Mom and what we would have been doing to prepare for the Holiday.

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Main / Re: LIFE IN GENERAL
« on: October 08, 2010, 06:54:44 AM »
Don, your story is extemely sad, my heart breaks for you.  Time is the only thing that helps, and even with the passage of time there are no gaurantees.  Come here and express what you are feeling, we all care.

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Main / Re: hi everyone
« on: September 21, 2010, 09:29:37 AM »
Great to see you post!  I have been wondering where you were!  I will be on tonight.

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Main / Re: I Lost my Mom
« on: September 21, 2010, 09:28:39 AM »
Stacy, I am so very sorry for the loss you have experienced.  Mother's are our precious jewels and I totally understand the pain you are experiencing.  Time is the only thing that has helped me with the loss of my Mother, but I have to be honest and tell you that even with the passage of time, the pain is there, sites, sounds, and smells trigger memories of the past, and all the emotions come pouring forth. For me it helped to talk about my mama, to be surrounded by the things she loved, to go to the cemetery and talk to her (though I realized I could talk to her anywhere!).  Express yourself, talk about her, embrace the memories, the love, and never be ashamed of what you feel. It has been two years since my sweet Mama left my physical world, and yes, I am better but I allow myself to cry to and to think of her.  Holidays are the worst of times, but I muddle through, keeping traditions, and remembering how much she loved Christmas and how she hated her birthday! Life will never be the same for you, and for that I am sorry and share in your pain.  May God Bless you!  Come to Web Healing and express your feelings! I am so sorry you had to find this place, but here you will find support!

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Main / Re: I lost the love of my life on February 18, 2010.
« on: September 17, 2010, 08:13:31 AM »
I am so sorry for your loss!  May you find comfort in the wonderful memories you have!

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Main / 2 Years
« on: September 17, 2010, 08:11:15 AM »
Today is the second anniversary of my Mother's death.  I miss her just as much as I always have, but I get through things much easier. I still often wonder, what would Mama think I should do.  I can say that things get easier with the passage of time, but its more of an acceptance that you have to keep going. Life is lonely, since I never had children, of course my siblings have children, but I am always an after thought or someone to hand out  money, I decided no more and guess what, I am pretty much alone most of the time! I am okay with that.  I am going to retire in 2 more years, and just 'piddle'.  Such is life, all I can say is "I miss you Mama, but I am the person you helped me to become and for that I am grateful!"

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Main / Re: Remembering Kevin
« on: September 15, 2010, 05:29:56 PM »
Kevin was a great guy, when I first came to web healing he would send me messages and we chatted some. 

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