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Child Loss / Happy Heavenly Birthday, Tom! (BonnyLu)
« on: August 07, 2017, 06:46:27 AM »
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Tom!


Remembering your precious Tom today on his Heavenly Birthday and wishing you a day filled with only the most beautiful memories of your time together.

Holding you close, sending a big hug, :love9:

Child Loss / Re: Loss of Son
« on: July 31, 2017, 02:12:31 PM »

He knew he was going to die.  He told me every day how glad he was that God gave him a Mom like me.  He also felt like he was a burden to me.  I told him time and time again that He wasn't and I WAS glad to care for him, it's called being a Mother. 

How sweet your Tom was. And strong. Those words must bring you such comfort, at times.

Surely understand about your Mom and how frightened you were, and still are. Tom's death being so recent and your pain being so very raw right now.....try (as hard as it is) to take care of yourself. Try to rest. Eat healthy snacks. Take a walk outside. Drink lots of water, stay hydrated. We forget, sometimes to do the simple things, like breathe in and out...deep breaths. I remember having to remind myself at times just to breathe.

Let us know about your Mom and how she's recovering. Holding good thoughts for her, and you.

Big Hug ((((((BonnyLu))))))

Main / Re: Uncle Phinios's birthday
« on: July 22, 2017, 07:57:29 AM »

Sending a Big Hug and my love to you at this difficult time.

Also, a Happy (belated) Heavenly Birthday to your precious sister, Jolene. I know she smiles on you and is always with you in spirit. :love9:

Much love to you,

Child Loss / Re: Loss of Son
« on: July 22, 2017, 07:49:13 AM »

I'm so very sorry for the great loss of your precious son, Tom. Welcome to Webhealing.

Webhealing is a safe place to vent your feelings....never any judgments. I came to Webhealing when my oldest and only surviving child died, many years ago. My posts here on the board looked more like 'short stories' as I held nothing back, or in. It really helped me.
It takes a long time to even begin to understand our loss. Losing a child is so devastating.

If there is anything I can do for you, feel free to message me. And when you feel up to it, please tell us more about your Tom. We're here for you.

Sending love & understanding,

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: June 23, 2017, 08:24:11 AM »

Hi Kim,

I'm so sorry to read of the death of your precious husband. Welcome to Webhealing. :love9: Our newest members are Mark and Raven. You'll see their posts below.

Post as little or as much as you feel up to posting, someone is always reading. Grief can be very confusing and also, overwhelming. One day, hour, minute at a time and sometimes a second at a time is how we work through this and in our own time. Learning and accepting that we have to live without someone we loved so dearly is work. And, although it may feel like it at times....I don't believe you are nuts or anywhere close to it. Pain roars and it stings and can cause us to ride the 'ocean of emotions' wave.

We're here for you. If there is anything I can do for you, just message me or post it here on the board.


Child Loss / Re: Lost my daughter
« on: June 14, 2017, 07:07:06 AM »

I'm so sorry for your great loss. Welcome to Webhealing.

Share as you're able about your precious daughter.

We're here for you.


Spouse, Partner Loss / Thinking of you today, Mark
« on: June 13, 2017, 08:32:06 AM »

Holding you close in thoughts and wishing for a day with gentle memories on this your Wedding Anniversary. May your moments of remembrance of your precious  :angel11: Gina :angel11: fill your heart with the love that is everlasting.


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Hope lives 5 years later
« on: June 12, 2017, 04:24:00 PM »

Thanks so much for the update on how you've been doing. Sure do appreciate it.

Wishing you continued happiness and peace. :icon_flower:


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: 2 months tomorrow
« on: June 12, 2017, 04:20:35 PM »


Main / Re: Pet loss
« on: May 26, 2017, 07:36:13 PM »

I'm so sorry for your loss. This is a link to the Pet Loss site. There are so many others there that will respond with kindness and you can share of your loss openly.


Parent Loss / (((Dina Marie))) Thinking of you today
« on: May 17, 2017, 12:00:06 PM »
((((Dina Marie))))

Thinking of you today and wishing your Grandma a Happy Heavenly Birthday.

Wishes for a day filled with sweet and warm memories of your time together. :love9:

Hugs & Love,

Parent Loss / Re: Mothers Day- How do we cope
« on: May 13, 2017, 10:42:00 AM »


I'm so sorry to read of the death of your precious Mom. Sending you hugs and holding you close to my heart on this Mother's Day.

Love, :love9:

Child Loss / Happy Mother's Day to our Moms!
« on: May 13, 2017, 10:40:00 AM »
(((((((((To All Our Moms - Happy Mother's Day!))))))))) :love9:

Wishing you all a day filled with only the most beautiful memories of your angels. Every waking moment my angels are in my heart and in my thoughts. Not just sometimes.....but everyday.

Terry :love9:


Colleen Ranney   

Sometimes I catch a glimpse,
In softened waves of blue
My child, my heart ...when I see a smile
I can't help but think of you

Sometimes these waves fill oceans.
And feelings string on every shore
A collections of each memory
And every way I wish for more

Sometimes I watch for answers
Because each day I call to you
I ask for faith and courage
And strength help me through

Sometimes I ask for bravery
Like dolphins in the deep
Because time moves oh so slowly
And some times the road is steep

Sometimes I want to scream
This was not what I had planned
Why you ever suffered
A mom can't understand

Sometimes I hear your laughter
And remember you at play
But My Child I always miss you
Not sometimes, but everyday.

We will remember Jim on his special dates. They are posted on our calendar.


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: I'm new here
« on: May 01, 2017, 06:17:50 AM »


I'm so sorry to read of the recent death of your precious husband, Jim. The days, weeks and even months following the death of our loved one can be very confusing times and no, you're not losing your mind. Early grief is truly a very difficult time.

Try to care for yourself the best you can as grief can zap our immune systems and we can get very sick. Eat healthy snacks, drink plenty of water, rest if you can't sleep and try to get out of the house to go for a walk everyday.

The finality of the death of a loved one is stinging. We all understand that here. Post as often as you are able. Someone is always reading.

With love & understanding, :love9:

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