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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Michael, how's the move?
« on: March 13, 2017, 01:49:09 PM »
Sent you a private message. :love9:

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Parent Loss / Re: Introductions
« on: February 26, 2017, 12:04:41 PM »

Oh Dina,

I'm so sorry to learn of the recent death of your Grandpop. And, I agree that regardless of whether they are sick or not, we're never, ever prepared to say good-bye to one that we love so much.

You have my heart.

Hugs,
Terry

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Parent Loss / Re: Loss of my Dad
« on: February 26, 2017, 11:59:13 AM »

(((((llewis)))))

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious Dad. I understand the pain, the sadness. It's difficult as death is so final and we're left with the memories. Especially since you two were so close. I do think it's normal to feel the sadness. How can we not, when someone who has meant the world to us is no longer physically with us. Our brain knows it's true but it takes quite awhile for our hearts to catch up to that truth.

Not sure I have any advice, I only know that we all grieve differently. Some of us longer than others. There's really no right or wrong way to grieve and there's no time limit.

Welcome to Webhealing. There are others here who are grieving the loss of their parent, also. We find comfort when sharing our pain with others.

Let me know how you're doing.

Sending you a big hug and my love,
Terry

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Parent Loss / Re: Motherless by 17, parentless at 26.
« on: February 26, 2017, 11:50:43 AM »

(((((Bri)))))

I'm so sorry to read of the death of your precious Dad. Losing both parents is such a great loss, especially when so young. I certainly understand the pain as I've lost both parents and all three of my children. In fact, I was around your age when my Mom died at 48.

I'm glad you found us. Welcome to Webhealing.

What kind of support do you have in your life at this time? Siblings, friends? Is there a pastor or priest that you're close to? It really helps to sit down and talk with someone but we don't always have that in our lives and the reason for the importance of message boards such as Webhealing. I, along with many others found these boards to be a life saver; coming on to post at any hour or just vent the pain is helpful. There's always someone here and we never close. Like an online journal.

Please update when you have a chance so I know how you're doing.

Again, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your Dad and for the pain you're going through.

Sending you hugs, love & understanding,
Terry


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Child Loss / Happy Birthday, precious Jeff
« on: February 19, 2017, 05:03:14 AM »

Happy Heavenly Birthday, Jeff!

Last night I had a dream that we were celebrating your 2nd Birthday. Everyone was so happy. I wondered if maybe you set that up for your Momma last night? I'd like to think that you did. You always find a way to surprise me.

Although you were a man when you left us, today I remember you as my little guy, my little thinker with that most loving and beautiful, angelic face.

I miss you, my most precious little boy and I hope you know that you hold my heart in your hands.




Kiss your brother and sister for me,
Momma

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Michael, how's the move?
« on: February 16, 2017, 03:38:04 PM »
((((((Michael)))))))

So sorry for your struggles. My heart goes out to you.

I appreciate you checking in with me as you're always in my thoughts.

Here for you,
Terry

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Suicide Loss / Re: My mothers suicide
« on: February 09, 2017, 06:19:01 AM »
So on December 11th of this past year, my mother hung herself with a dog leash. I am the one who found her, she was in my friends garage. She couldn't have been there long I had just received a text from her only 2 hours before.  I am still so lost and dont know how to cope :(

(((((((SuperMommy2))))))

I'm so sorry to read of the tragic death of your precious Mom. Welcome to Webhealing.

Feeling lost and not knowing how to cope is understandable. Such a shock.

I'm here for you.

Sending hugs, love & understanding,
Terry

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Parent Loss / Re: Introductions
« on: February 08, 2017, 08:55:43 AM »

Hi Dina,

Thanks so much for sharing about your Dad and some of the wonderful memories. I feel the love from your words and know just how lucky you are and your Dad was to know such love. And, you're never babbling. In fact, just the opposite because talking about them is how we keep them alive in our hearts and in the hearts of others. There's no greater way to honor them.
Me and my Dad talked on the phone every day, too (before his illness). Sometimes for hours. I can relate to that. For a long time, a very long time after he died when something happened and I was really excited I would look for Dad to tell him. My Dad had Alzheimers and lived with me for 11 years. I cared for him until the end. And even with his disease he was still my rock and I was still his little girl. That will never change.

Would love to see a pic of your dogs. Please post them.  Through all of my losses in life I have to attribute a great deal of my healing to the unconditional love my dogs filled my heart with every day. No complications. No expectations. And, I never had to wear a mask. Just soaked in their pure love.

With just a little over two weeks since your Dad died and the shock not even beginning to wear off yet, I think you're doing an amazing job with sharing about him. These early weeks and months are very difficult. Just know that I'm here for you and am glad you found Webhealing.

Look forward to those pics. :icon_flower:

Hugs,
Terry






 

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Child Loss / ((((Paula))))
« on: February 06, 2017, 05:12:13 PM »
Hey there Paula,

Hope all is well with you and Craig. It's been awhile since I've heard from you. Would love an update when you find the time.

I think of you, Craig and Kate all the time. How is our girl?

Love,
Terry :love9:

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Michael, how's the move?
« on: February 06, 2017, 05:07:15 PM »
Hi Michael,

Any bites on your place yet? Haven't heard from you so I assume you're pretty busy. When you find the time please check in with me and let me know how things are going for you.

Hugs,
Terry

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Parent Loss / Re: Birthdays and Angel Dates - NEW!
« on: February 06, 2017, 04:53:29 PM »
Hi Dina,

I posted your Dad's Birthday and Angel Date and same for your Grandma. So sorry for your great losses.

Hugs,
Terry

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Parent Loss / Re: Introductions
« on: February 06, 2017, 04:51:08 PM »

(((((Dina)))))

I'm so sorry to read of the death of your precious Dad. Sure do understand as my Dad, too was my best friend and rock and I was lost, just so devastated. We all grieve differently as we're so unique so just take it a day at a time and try to take care of yourself the best you can. Eat well, rest/sleep, walk (outside of the house) and drink plenty of water. These were things I could not have gone without doing while grieving. They literally saved my life.

Do you have pets?

Tell me more about your Dad.

Sending you hugs & my love, :love9:
Terry

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Main / Re: Needing my uncle
« on: January 24, 2017, 09:47:13 AM »
((((((((Gail)))))))) :love9:

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Parent Loss / Re: My Mother's birthday
« on: January 24, 2017, 09:45:54 AM »
Happy Heavenly Birthday to your precious Mom today!

Still missing my Mom who died in 1977. Her birthday was New Year's Day and I cried, too thinking of the love & joy she brought into everyone's life. How can we not forever miss them? I understand, Gail.

Sending you my love and lots of hugs and wishes for the most beautiful memories of your Mom to touch your heart today. :love9: :love9: :love9:

(((((((Gail))))))) :love9:

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Introductions thread
« on: January 20, 2017, 06:36:17 PM »

Hi Julie Marie,

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious husband. Welcome to Webhealing.

You're so right that when grieving it's one minute, second at a time. It's not easy but it's important to care for your physical health the best you can as grieving zaps our immune systems. Try to walk every day away from your home.

And posting helps, a lot. There are many members on Spouse Loss as you'll find as you post below.

We're here for you.

Sending hugs & love,

((((((Julie Marie)))))

Hugs,
Terry



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