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Title: Marc's 21st
Post by: Judy-Marc's mum on August 31, 2009, 08:33:49 AM
Hi everyone.  Today it is tuesday the 1st Sept at 1.10am (the time my gorgeous son was born) Western Australia time and it would be his 21st birthday. :)
On Saturday we had a party for him and the turn out of family and his friends was great.  If you would like to see some pictures, ( http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=2473702&l=688fffe462&id=684007083)
I thought that it would be a hard thing to do but instead I found that it has been great.. I was dreading today as all I could think of is how bad it was going to be, but instead I am thinking that it might have been the best thing to do.  Having all his friends here was just so fantastic as I have not seen them since his funeral 2 1/2 yrs ago.  My heart just feels a little bit more settled now. We were all telling Marc stories and the remember whens!!!!
Our daughter gave me the best surprise by coming down for the party, she had previously told me that she was not able to get down for work commitments as she had just started a new job just a few months before. ;D

I just think that I might get through today without to many tears.

All of my love to anyone else having a birthday or angel day today.
Judy (Marc's Mum)
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: browneyedgirl on August 31, 2009, 09:35:23 AM
Happy birthday, Marc!!!

Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: Dena on August 31, 2009, 03:41:33 PM
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Marc!

(((((Judy)))))

Thinking of you today and hoping that Marc sends you a sign to let you know that he is always near.

Love,
Dena, Josh's Mom
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: Adams Brokenhearted Mama on September 01, 2009, 06:18:11 AM
Thinking of you and your Angel Marc.
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: Donnys Dad on September 01, 2009, 08:29:47 AM
Judy I so hope you can get thru this day with as few tears as possible.  May Marc touch you in someway.  Happy Birthday Marc
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: MARTHA(CANDI'S AUNT) on September 01, 2009, 10:28:01 AM
JUDY,
 YOU'RE IN MY THOUGHT'S & PRAYERS.


HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY MARC.>>>>>>>>

MARTHA
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: Kathy on September 01, 2009, 04:33:33 PM
Dear Judy,

What a wonderful celebration for Marc and for you! Happy Heavenly Birthday Marc.

Love,
Kathy-Don's Mom
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: tsoley on September 01, 2009, 06:55:40 PM
Happy Birthday Marc!
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: Barbara on September 01, 2009, 07:33:42 PM
Judy,
  Thinking of you and Marc today. My Patrick shares the same B day as your Marc. He would have been 24 today. I am glad to hear that you had a good day with family and friends. That is what keeps us going. Strength and prayers to you and your family.
                Barbara (Patrick's mom)
(http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f279/b_q_one/Photo-00182copy.jpg)
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: Terry on September 01, 2009, 08:48:23 PM
Happy Heavenly Birthday Marc!

(((((Judy)))))

So glad your day was filled with joy...so nice to have friends/family on these days. Nice group photo!! Thanks for sharing.

Love,
Terry
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: Brenda Taylors Mom on September 03, 2009, 10:07:33 AM
(((( Judy)))) I'm sending Marc a late happy heavenly birthday.. I'm so glad you had a Marc story telling time with his friends and with your family.... Love, Brenda
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: LaVonne on September 05, 2009, 07:50:35 AM
Happy birthday alittle late to Marc and hope he had a great party. I am glad It went ok for you having a party and having family with you. Hugs LaVonne
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: jillsmom on September 05, 2009, 02:30:48 PM
Thanks for posting the pictures of the gathering for Marc. A spark of him is in every one of those people.  He must have felt very close to you with everyone gathered together. My daughter turned 22 this June, and it was too soon after her death for me to do something like this, but perhaps next year.
with love, Kay Jill's mom
Title: Re: Marc's 21st
Post by: MelissaCharliesMom on September 06, 2009, 06:49:35 PM
I am late but just so you know thinking of you and your Marc.