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« on: November 15, 2009, 07:42:43 PM »

On Nov 16, 1993 I became a mom for the first time. It was the best day of my life. At 8:21 pm Charles E. S***** IV was born, 8lbs 2 oz, 21" long...my first baby, our son!!!He would have been 16 tomorrow. We should be out shopping for his first truck and instead I will spend time at a cold , stone in the middle of the cemetery begging whatever powers that be and whoever else will listen to please give me my son back!!!!!!I am asking all of you to send me some strength, because at this moment, even the love I share with my precious kiddos just isnt enough!!!!I am tired of working so hard just to live. I just want my son back!!!!
Happy Bday my Buddy, my boy, my precious precious son. How I love and miss you, every second of every, single day.
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« Reply #1 on: November 15, 2009, 08:05:33 PM »

Dear Melissa,

I hope you have wonderful memories that will help you make it through Charles' sixteenth birthday. I will light Don's candle in memory of your dear Charles.

Love,
Kathy-Don's Mom

Happy Birthday Charles!
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« Reply #2 on: November 15, 2009, 10:05:38 PM »

Melissa, I'm so sorry.

Just know I'm here and I'm thinking about you and you're in my thoughts and prayers.

I'm sending out positive energy for you to help see you through this difficult time, missing your baby Charlie so very much. At times, it feels as though the pain will just swallow us up. It can be so intense.

If I could, I would take some of it away from you, if just for a short while. Just long enough to be able to see into another tomorrow.

Holding you tight.
My love,
Terry
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« Reply #3 on: November 16, 2009, 02:33:43 AM »

Happy Heavenly Birthday, Charlie!

(((((Melissa))))))

Thinking of you today & remembering Charlie on his Birthday.  I hope that your day is peaceful, filled with loving memories and Charlie sends you a sign to let you know that he is always near.

Love,
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« Reply #4 on: November 16, 2009, 05:16:02 AM »

Thinking of you and Charlie on his 16th Birthday.

Sending strength, peace and love

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« Reply #5 on: November 16, 2009, 11:22:25 AM »

Happy heavenly birthday, Charlie!!

Thinking of you and your family and sending strength.
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« Reply #6 on: November 16, 2009, 11:27:21 AM »

((( Melissa )))

I am sending heavenly birthday wishes to your fabulous Charlie......they have all been gone too long.

Hold on tight on this difficult day, I understand what you are feeling.

May you feel your Charlie's kiss on the breeze.

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Judy

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« Reply #7 on: November 16, 2009, 03:26:49 PM »

(((( Melissa)))) I'm holding you so tight so close in my heart and thoughts at this unreal time..that is sadly real.. when Charlie should be here to be 16.. Sad  HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY CHARLIE.. YOU ARE LOVED. SAYING CHARLIE OUTLOUD RIGHT NOW AND LIGHTING TAYLOR'S CANDLE FOR YOUR PRECIOUS PRECIOUS SON.
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« Reply #8 on: November 16, 2009, 09:36:42 PM »

Melissa,

Thinking of you and Charlie on his birthday. It's so hard and he is so loved and always will be. My son't birthday is in less than a month. It was also the best day of my life. I just wanted to be a mom and I was as good of a mom as I could be.

You are so loved by Charlie and he knows how you feel. I believe that. Your love reaches him, how could it not.

Love,
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« Reply #9 on: November 17, 2009, 01:47:26 AM »

Melissa
Remembering your Charlie on he's 16th birthday
Sending my love and a big hug,
he's always with you Melissa no matter what.
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« Reply #10 on: November 18, 2009, 05:04:46 AM »

Sorry I was not able to get on a computer on Charlie's bd. I know that looking at my daughter, I see Jason, not in looks per se, but as they would be standing together.  I am sure that even with all of your kiddies, that same memory has got to show up.  Then his bd, thanksgiving, christmas, etc., and he should be leading the pack.  I wish we all didn't have to face our daily lives without our flesh and blood.
Rebecca Jason's Mom
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« Reply #11 on: November 18, 2009, 07:20:04 AM »

So Sorry I am late.

Please know I am sending you strength and understanding for these difficult days.

HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY Charlie !!!!

Hugs,
Dottie Tammie's Mom
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« Reply #12 on: November 18, 2009, 08:27:35 AM »

(((MELISSA)))

Happy Heavenly Birthday Charlie.

Jeanne
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