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Gail08
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« on: November 11, 2009, 02:35:37 PM »

Since Halloween I have been have such a hard time.  I can't seem to ease the pain for a short period of time like I was being able to do.  I have been able to keep it together on the outside for others to see but inside I feel myself slowly losing it and I just don't know what to do.  Does anyone have any advice on what might help?
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« Reply #1 on: November 12, 2009, 09:31:20 AM »

Hi Gail ~ I wish that I had an answer for you....but I don't.  Step by step day by day, baby steps. I know it has only been a year....give your self time and keep plugging away, one day, the pain will ease, it will never fully be gone, but I hear that it gets a little easier.   

Sending you strength.
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« Reply #2 on: November 15, 2009, 06:02:15 PM »

Thinking of you Gail, keep taking it slowly. Like Browneyedgirl said, baby steps. We all understand and care.
Wishing you peace.
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« Reply #3 on: November 15, 2009, 10:13:06 PM »

((((( Gail )))))

Please know I'm thinking about you, always, knowing how long a process this is. Just being able to accept the fact that they are not coming back, is heartbreaking.

One day at a time. Sometimes, a second at a time.

Remember, this is the most difficult time of the year for most of us. I like to hide under my quilt until the Holiday's and all other dates have passed. (A girl can dream!)

Love you and sending you a big, big hug,
Terry
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