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jillsmom
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« on: October 31, 2009, 12:32:09 AM »

So many conversations with my friend Susan about her son and my daughter. Our kids were the same age, grew up together at our church, kept in touch after graduation. We worried so much about how they would grow up, if they would find their way, would they be able to overcome the obstacles in their lives. She has been by my side as I have grappled with the loss of Jill. Now, two days ago, the call came from a NY detective, her son had been found. Gone, by himself, 3000 miles from home, by his own hand. To have both of them gone in the same year is so unbelievable. I am doing what I can for her. It is so little compared to what she needs. She needs her son back. I just hate that she has to join this world.
with a heavy heart, Kay Jill's mom
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« Reply #1 on: October 31, 2009, 01:41:04 AM »

I am sor sorry for your friend and that you have to grieve another.  It should not be like this but, we have no control.   Thinking about both of u.
Rebecca Jason's Mom
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« Reply #2 on: October 31, 2009, 05:55:08 AM »

So heartbreaking-
I'm sorry. My thoughts are with you and your friend.

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« Reply #3 on: October 31, 2009, 01:07:57 PM »

(( Jill ))

How very sad to see another child has left us, I am so very very sorry.

My thoughts too are with you and your friend.

Sending strength,
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Judy

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« Reply #4 on: October 31, 2009, 06:10:32 PM »

Dear Jill,
Please, if or when it seems to be helpful, tell your friend about us. I am so very very sorry this awful tragedy has come into both your lives.

~A~ (Dans mom)
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« Reply #5 on: October 31, 2009, 08:01:09 PM »

I'm so deeply sad to hear this..
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« Reply #6 on: October 31, 2009, 08:22:49 PM »

((((( Kay )))))

I'm so sorry for this additional pain. I too, since Jeff has died, have had 2 very dear friends that I met 'since' Jeff, that have lost their children. It's heartbreaking.

Send her my love, and love & hugs to you and your precious "Jill"
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« Reply #7 on: November 01, 2009, 04:15:41 PM »

Sorry another tragedy has struck...I dont understand, I just dont.
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« Reply #8 on: November 04, 2009, 07:28:58 AM »

(((So Sorry)))
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« Reply #9 on: November 07, 2009, 08:58:11 PM »

Dearest Kay,

I'm so very sorry. Words cannot express the depth of my feelings over this. Why are our babies gone? Must be even more difficult for parents when their child takes their life intentionally. It's not the parent's fault, but it must be worse. I'm praying tonight for Susan's son, your lovely daughter, Jill, and my beautiful son, Michael.

They were so full of life and then all of a sudden... just gone... leaving us to feel so badly.

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