Broken

[Raquel]

My marrige is failing and I am not sure it can be fixed. My heart, soul, and spirit are broken, and I am not sure they can be fixed either.  How can you know someone and be complete strangers at the same time?  I never understood how communication breakdown could destroy my marriage.  Along with anger!  I am only 29 and I don't want to be divorced.  I do not want to start over.  My Husband was USMC, he suffers from PTSD.  It is destroying us!!  I dont even know if my faith in god is enough.  I don't want to believe he does not love me anymore.  We have been through so much.  

[lostwithouthim]

So sorry this is happening to you. I know how it feels when your marriage is falling apart . Your scrambling around trying to catch the pieces as they fall before they hit the ground. Praying for a miracle. Feeling no one could possibly understand the hurt you are going through. Feeling like no one even cares. Thinking you'll never get through it if it ends.

Oh I know those feeling all so well.

Know that you are worth more then you feel like you are right now.  Time heals the pain of divorce if it comes to that. Trust me, at one time . I didn't think I would ever get over my divorce. I cried of a  night in bed for the longest time. I didn't think the hurt would ever end.  It took some time but I got through it. But I didn't get thru it over night or in a week or time. Because my divorce was like a death. It was the death of my families hopes and dreams. It was saying goodbye to a man I loved. It hurt and it hurt bad. But I got over it.

You have more strength in you then you know. Just as I did. You will come through this and you'll be a much stronger woman too.

[Linds]

Your pain is so great. I feel for you. I am at a loss for words, your sacrifice and your husbands service are above and beyond. I wish that you or any of our other brave military families had to go through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.