Not going well for me at all...

[jake15]

Recently i left my school after an altercation with another group of lads.

I didn't fight back or get hit, though i left to a school in the same town. I left as i felt that i couldn't show my face at my old school, like i had something to be ashamed of.

Well, ever since i moved around a year ago, when i go in the car with my mum or dad or they ask me if i want to go out i do but get nervous and anxious.

I never used to get nervous or anxious but as time has gone on it has worsened.

Though i don't know what im "scared" of , if you could called it scared. I didn't get hit and i don't think that im scared of getting hit .

So i don't understand why im feeling like this. It's only 5 or 6 people i don't want to see around town.

I go out of my way to make sure i don't go to places where i think they are/ would be.

If anyone could tell me anyway to help me stop feeling nervous/anxious, or if they think i should tell my parents how i feel or anything at all, please leave a comment

Thanks. 

[grainofsand]

Jake~
It is often difficult to give good advice when you know so little about the situation.
I think you can never go wrong telling your parents how you feel.

Growing up has it's own difficulties.  I am sure your parents can be the best resource you have in your life.
I am glad you posted, shows you have lots of courage to find solutions to your problems.

[jake15]

Thanks

I just really don't want to feel like this anymore.

And i don't understand the reason why i do.

Maybe i over analyse things, or think of the worst.

But i do need to overcome these fears that i have.

Thanks for your comment, it shows someone at least cares a little.

[Barb fletcher]

Jake----I had some fears when I was younger and it does take time and work to overcome them. Telling someone about them is helpful as most people understand and want to be helpful. We feel ours are  different then most others.  They usually are the same as others. Just work on them and rely on friends also, makes you feel closer and so not alone. Others do care------

[georgiapeaches]

Jake
It sounds to me like your having some sort of panic attack, I have them also. You should talk with your parents. Panic attacks can be really scary but harmless when you learn how to control them. so talk with someone it will help. Everyone cares on this site so keep coming back.

[jake15]

Jake
It sounds to me like your having some sort of panic attack, I have them also. You should talk with your parents. Panic attacks can be really scary but harmless when you learn how to control them. so talk with someone it will help. Everyone cares on this site so keep coming back.

Thanks

I walked through town yesterday and went to a place i knew people were that i didn't like. Though i thought, im not letting this ruin my life anymore and i did it.

So now hopefully it will get better from now on. 

[laurenE]

jake15,

How are you doing now?   Are you feeling any better?  did you tell your parents how you were feeling?

Let us know.  We do care!
Lauren